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WarrierMonk

WarrierMonk

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I have been struggling with the problem of masturbation and porn for quite a number of years now. I am 21 and I started doing it when I was 13. I have tried a million times to stop and even considered telling my parents but wasn't able to summon enough courage to do that. This habit has cost me a huge amount of failure in my educational endeavors. I used to be very ambitious but it slowly got downhill and I now I am nothing more than a victim and a procrastinator. I live with my parents as an average nobody enrolled in a stupid college. I could never have expected that my life would become like this. I don't see the way out. I feel like I am stuck in a dark, hopeless prison. I need help. I really want to get out.
 
I understand exactly how you feel. I am also an addict, and have been stuck in the same loop of hopelessness.

I know this may sound like a cliche or worthless platitude, but your situation is not without hope. I have seen people fully recover from this condition, and go on to lead happy, fulfilling lives. You can too!

Both of us are just starting the fight, so it's hard to see the end game unless we know somebody else who is further along. But the fact that you are taking the first steps, admitting that there is a problem and seeking others to share that with, is in itself a great sign that you can do this.

I'll be signing in once a day to post and talk to people here. If you ever need to talk or anything, let me know.

Hope you have a good day. Fight the good fight! See you in the trenches.
 
Tim M. said:
I understand exactly how you feel. I am also an addict, and have been stuck in the same loop of hopelessness.

I know this may sound like a cliche or worthless platitude, but your situation is not without hope. I have seen people fully recover from this condition, and go on to lead happy, fulfilling lives. You can too!

Both of us are just starting the fight, so it's hard to see the end game unless we know somebody else who is further along. But the fact that you are taking the first steps, admitting that there is a problem and seeking others to share that with, is in itself a great sign that you can do this.

I'll be signing in once a day to post and talk to people here. If you ever need to talk or anything, let me know.

Hope you have a good day. Fight the good fight! See you in the trenches.
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Thanks...! I hope we both heal for good. I am up for talks too so feel free to inbox me too.
 
I'm so with you. In high school, I graduated with a 3.95 gpa. As I'm entering my fourth year of college, I have a 2.45 gpa. Porn has ruined all that I wanted here at college and honestly, I have a very bleak outlook to what my life will be like once I do graduate and have to find a job. I'm so excited to be done with it! We're also about the same age and both just starting. i'm always down to chat. Feel free to inbox me!
 
Feel close to you all guys, thanks to this community we will be free from our habit and we'll able to start a new life! I'm writing a journal to keep myself motivated and I hope my feels and toughts can help someone else. Good luck to you all!
 
the only way forward for a severe long term pmo addict is , if your ready to pay your dues of pmoing for all these years.
That is by enduring pain , miserable suffering , depression , hopelessness , regrets, facing the harsh truth and reality and every other lows that you can hit.
Once this stage is passed , you'll start recoverying. but that stage is the hardest part, and after which you.ll .experience glimpses of a free life, which is beyond words to express , sweet ,gentle , carring ,free , joy , alive.

Its the feeling of being thankful just be alive, no regrets.
#childmode
 
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