Hey guys new to this community

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by distancerunner459, Apr 19, 2020.

  1. distancerunner459

    distancerunner459 New Fapstronaut

    Hey guys, 24 year old male here with a very hot new girlfriend. Been having ED (i think PIED) problems since i lost my virginity at age 18. Anyways I'm gonna try this out. I've tried it before unsuccessfully, but after shitty sex with my beautiful new girlfriend two days ago (got hard and lost it several times and didn't feel that good when i put it in---gave me hella anxiety and got super sweaty and just couldn't get hard) it's time to give this a serious try. I've had sex with several girls, but haven't orgasmed most of the time and have had anxiety with sex--even though I realize i'm attractive and pretty much confident--i just worry about not being able to get hard the next time which usually always has a negative effect on my performance with a woman.

    I watched porn pretty much daily for years since i was 14 and it makes total sense how it has messed up my brain. anyways I'm excited to give this a shot and find new hobbies. I'm already really physically fit and run a lot and have a lot of energy, so looking for a new hobby and "passion" is something I look forward to in this journey. anyways...thanks for having me lol
  2. Castawaycasualty

    Castawaycasualty Fapstronaut

    Best of luck to you man! Hope you can figure some things out about yourself through your journey here!
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  3. Welcome to nofap, best of luck on your journey :)
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  4. Welcome to NoFap!!!
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  5. Hi there...
    Welcome to the forums :)
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  6. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:
    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/
    Set up your day counter /
    Rebooting Resources/
    Accountability groups (new!)/
    About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is just some advice:
    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate sectionfor you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!

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