Hey Nofap..

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Volkodav, Oct 28, 2015.

  1. Volkodav

    Volkodav New Fapstronaut

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    Heyyo; usually I'd post this sort've stuff to Reddit but its whatever..


    My girlfriend is busy and shes the only thing that really keeps my mind off fapping, that and playing the MMORPG World of Warcraft. I guess I use self pleasure as a way to use the ectesy to escape my current mindstate. I'm sorry if my English is bad, my autocorrect is only in Russian.


    But I'm considering edging because I really have nothing to cure this constant sadness that I'm feeling, I'm not depressed or anything, I hope not at least, that'd be terrible, and I need help before I attempt it. I don't really like posting on forums, but I figured I'd give you guys a try! I hope this thread gets seen, right now my body is begging for the feeling of fapping, but I'm doing my best to fight it.
     
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  2. DogDaysOfLife

    DogDaysOfLife Fapstronaut

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    Get off the Internet. Don't fap until you can think of something better to do. Then do that instead of fapping!
     
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  3. Volkodav

    Volkodav New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks!
     
  4. Odd Thomas

    Odd Thomas Fapstronaut

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    Agree with DDOL.

    I think sadness can be very healthy in this day and age. If looking at the world doesn't make you sad, I'd wonder what fantasy you're living in.

    Having said that it's only healthy if it motivates you to do good (yes good in the good ol' biblical sense of the word, though your actions needn't be religiously motivated) and thus give meaning to your life.

    If you wallow in it, it just sucks. And if you have a history of wallowing in it...that's a habit that takes time and effort and belief to break.

    That may be more than you want right now.

    For right now just don't do it! You can always revisit that option later. But having someone you love is 10 billion times better.

     
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  5. Kyoheix

    Kyoheix Fapstronaut

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    Edging IS part of the problem, just don't consider it as a relief. It's like going through all the addictive process without the milky reward.
    Just DON'T.
     
  6. My only recommendation would be to go outside and put your bare feet in some soil. Dirt, grass, just get grounded and breathe. Leave your devices away for awhile and remember that there is a whole universe out there. Just breathe, sit still outside and relax. Its all good.

    Say it with me:
    I did not masturbate today and I'm sure as hell not going to fap tomorrow. I do not masturbate anymore. I live life to the fullest, as the fullest. I am pure energy, master of my mind, body and emotions.
     

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