Hi, 16 y/o newbie here :)

[PMOisLove]

I wanted to stop masturbating for one sole reason: to stop getting erections so frequently. You see, I'm meeting my new girlfriend for the first time in about 3 months time, and I frequently get erections when texting her, and I would like to ask you guys if not masturbating would allow me to control my erections more. For example, if she's on top of me, would there be a lower chance of me getting hard?

Thank you guys so much!
Mikolaj

 

[Septimus]

I wanted to stop masturbating for one sole reason: to stop getting erections so frequently. You see, I'm meeting my new girlfriend for the first time in about 3 months time, and I frequently get erections when texting her, and I would like to ask you guys if not masturbating would allow me to control my erections more. For example, if she's on top of me, would there be a lower chance of me getting hard?

Thank you guys so much!
Mikolaj

Welcome! I'm glad you're here.

There are lots of guys your age here, I encourage you to link up with them for mutual support.

My response to your question is this: what I think you can hope for is not that you won't get aroused; but that it won't dominate your life. Just because "something happens," doesn't mean you have to do anything in particular about it.

Keep coming back!