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Hi Guys, Looking for help and support and willing to help too!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Lonewolfpt, Jan 2, 2018.

  1. Jan 2, 2018 #1
    Lonewolfpt

    Lonewolfpt Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone! (My text comes from Google Translator, I have to work in my English since I'm even taking a master's degree spoken in English)

    I came to this community through a YouTube related video.


    I probably share the same story as many here.

    I am a young adult who feels that pornography has slumbered my life, although until now I have achieved all my goals in school terms and currently being in college, in the social department my life has decreased immensely ( I literally have zero friends) in the latter years despite having a girlfriend that I love very much and i feel so bad/guilty that she doesnt know about my Porn addiction.

    What I hate most about my addiction to pornography is the fact that I am so ashamed of this vice that I do not have the courage to tell anyone around me that since I was about 12 years old I use pornography to drown my sorrows.

    I have reached the age that I no longer feel the man hiding this part of me from other people, i am not genuine with the ones i love the most, I feel that I am not in control of myself and I enter into anxiety simply by calling the employee in the restaurant.

    Thank you for giving me some basic tips on how I can use the forum for our development.

    If there is any book or set of videos that can help me with the PMO path I'm going to start, thank you.

    Looking forward to sharing experiences with you!


    What positive changes do you guys adopted since quitting PMO?
     
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  2. Jan 2, 2018 #2
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    One of the ways I got involved with the fellowship was by reading some really great journals.

    I've included journals from all age groups, spiritual members, religious members, secular members, male and female. You should find journals that help. If not, look around, there are hundreds of others from which to choose. When I say "it works if you work it", reading journals is part of that work.

    Once you open a journal, click "Watch Thread" in the upper right of the page to get alerts when new posts are made. Here are just a few:

    @2525 Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/147264/
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    @Visor Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/144228/
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    @Dragonnlife Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/136148
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    @I_can_and_I_will Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/138959/
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    @weddingnails Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143418/
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    @MLMVSS Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/142945/
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    @Struggle Bug Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/141911/
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    @BigDawg913 Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/145872/
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    @Sunshadow Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/75108/
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    @kropo82 Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/78164/
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    @tet2vd Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/144513
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    @Protagoras Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/109842/
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    @Tomoya Okazaki Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143534/
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    @DavidGibson Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143325/
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    @Euklid Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/146663/
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    @BreatheDeeply Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/139097/
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    @LiquidShoes Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/134044/
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    @Reverent Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143845/
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    @Former_CD Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/87827/
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    @PatrickR Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/139570/
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    There are many more, and you can discover them on your own. But, these are great places to start.

    This is a work in progress. So, if a journal has changed or is no longer active, look around there are some amazing journals on here.

    - L
     
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  3. Jan 2, 2018 #3
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    Hey

    Very glad you are here.

    When I arrived here, I was very confused by the program. So many terms, ideas, different opinions. I was in some ways as overwhelmed with NoFap as I was with pmo.

    I found two things that helped me.

    First, was reading up on the program and figuring out where to start and how to work my program. The best page is the one with the list of all the resources available.

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/new-users-list-of-rebooting-resources.50878/

    That page explained the program. I read every article and watched all the videos on that page.

    Next, was the community. By getting involved, reading people's posts, remembering to "like" the posts, reading the post not only in the forum, but on people's profiles, I found a great group of people.

    This is a diverse community. We have religious people and secular ones. There are men and women. People with months of no pmo and those just starting out. As well, there are many different approaches to remove porn from our lives forever.

    Keep reading posts and profiles. You will find someone who is telling your own story. Keep posting your own story, someone needs to read it.

    Looking forward to reading many more posts from you,

    - L
     
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