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  1. Tomiya

    Tomiya New Fapstronaut

    Hi, I have been married to my wife for about two years now. I used to PMO in prior to marriage, but after the marriage, I felt like I was freed from the desire and guilt of PMO. However, after the marriage, there were two occasion where I had went back to PMO, both times were when she was away for longer than a week. She was very furious when she came back and I confessed. I feel that my action is also affecting her state of heart and mind, making her into a person who she does not want to be. As for me, I have realized my mind is still weak against controlling PMO just like before I married. I have thought I have overcame PMO, but once left alone, it is still hard to fight it off. If I was on my own, I won't be able to become a happy person living my life free from addiction. I want to confront myself on this matter, and develop a strong mind to have control over myself and my life.
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  2. Username1021

    Username1021 Fapstronaut

    Hey @Tomiya, welcome to Nofap! I've had significant difficulties with PMO myself, even when I had thought I had overcome it. Browse around the site to find some helpful tools, and maybe also people in a similar situation as you are for advice. wish you all the best.
  3. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?

    Associating with other married men is also helpful as well.
    Here are just a few that come to mind:


    Each of these men, and there are countless more, who have shared there struggles, although different, but may be encouragement to you.

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