Hi - New Member. I've lost everything!! PLS HELP :(

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  1. Galaxy86

    Galaxy86 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone,

    I hope you are all well. I recently stumbled across your community and would really appreciate your help and support. I am at the lowest point in my life and have absolute determination to turn myself around for the better.

    About 2 months ago my fiancé left me as a result to my porn addition. This addiction has been 10 years in the making. My addiction has spiralled out of control without me realising. I was utterly blind of the impact it would have on my relationship and had no idea at the time that this was an addiction and how much help I actually needed.

    I cry every night of the hurt and pain I must have caused my partner. One day I am determined to do my best to fix things with her, but until then I know my piority is to get myself better and in the correct frame of mind.

    I look forward speaking to you all soon.

    Take care.
     
  2. Welcome to nofap buddy, sorry what you had to go through. But rest assured you are in the right place and whatever you need we are all here for you. Best of luck on your journey. Take care
     
  3. Galaxy86

    Galaxy86 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you Nico. Much appreciated my friend :)
     
  4. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )
    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button /
    Set up your day counter /
    Rebooting Resources/
    Accountability groups (new!) /
    About NoFap/ Support Nofap
    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.
    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate section for you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
  5. Galaxy86

    Galaxy86 Fapstronaut

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    Hi Coffee Candy thank you for all the info. I shall take a look :)
     
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  6. Ipolit

    Ipolit Fapstronaut

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    You are not alone and you are stronger than you think! You can make it true! Best of luck to you, friend!
     
  7. All might 2212

    All might 2212 Fapstronaut

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    Best of luck and don't i know that you will overcome this addiction!! keep going and best of luck
     
  8. zilean

    zilean Fapstronaut

    There's hope for those who seek it.

    I feel for your sorrowful nights, know that people care for you and will see you through this.
     
  9. I'm sorry to hear that but thats the oportunity now to start changing your life.
    Dont just try nofap. Just do it.From now to the last day of your recovery. No relapse and it will be better sooner
     
  10. Galaxy86

    Galaxy86 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. I feel the support from you all and I really appreciate it. Best of luck to you to :)
     
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  11. Galaxy86

    Galaxy86 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. And best of luck to you too my friend :)
     
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  12. Galaxy86

    Galaxy86 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. It's nice to know there is such a caring community. Best wishes to you too :)
     
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  13. PIEDSufferer

    PIEDSufferer Fapstronaut

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    Welcome! And sorry we had to meet you during such a dark time. But this is often the time when people seek help.

    Just keep in mind that when you are at your lowest, things can only go UP from here:)
     
  14. Galaxy86

    Galaxy86 Fapstronaut

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    You're absolutely right. This is my time to change my life for the better. Thank you for your motivational words :)
     
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  15. Galaxy86

    Galaxy86 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you my friend. Things can only get better. All the best to you :)
     
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  16. Hi there...
    Welcome to the community! :)
     
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