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High Libido or just bored?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ben Vaz, May 29, 2015.

  1. Ben Vaz

    Ben Vaz Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone, recently I talked with one of my best friends about my NoFap, why I do it and how long I will continue doing it. The reason I started noFap was the fact that I masturbated at least three times a day or even more. Every day. The thing is, for me it seemed normal, I thought every man has a such a sex drive and masturbates so often. A few days ago, this particular friend told me that he could never fap that much, that after one time, he doesn't want to fap for quite a while, a few days sometimes. That has never happened to me, so my question is, do I maybe have a very high libido or was I just so bored that I masturbated all day long? I certainly only masturbated, when I had the feeling I wanted to do it, I didnt't do it to kill time. Achieving 90 days soon, I've spent some time recently, asking myself, why I did it so often. Does someone here have some answers? Thank you for your time
     
  2. nitsuj0786

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    Did you watch P a lot or every time you fapped?
     
  3. Ben Vaz

    Ben Vaz Fapstronaut

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    Not all the time, I watched P when I was at home and had time, but I also masturbated a lot without porn, presumably when I didnt have access to it.
     
  4. mada989

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    Sounds like just high libido which is healthy, nothing to worry about.
     
  5. nitsuj0786

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    High libido is healthy but three times a day is probably a little much. Since your reboot do you feel like you need to all the time now?
     
  6. Ben Vaz

    Ben Vaz Fapstronaut

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    Not at all, well sometimes I still have the feeling ,"hmm, yeah now I could do it", but to be honest the second I think that, I feel disgust. I dont want to masturbate anymore, I still have an incredible drive for women, but I don't want to masturbate to them. I want to see them, meet them, talk to them, kiss them and have sex with them. But I dont want to masturbate to them. Strange thing for me, after all these years, but I guess the reboot worked as expected. :)
     
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