Hiring an escort to know for sure fix pied ?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Jul 18, 2020.

  1. My brain, sexual arousal and or sexuality are completely fucked.

    I'm one of these dudes who are considered straight and have and always have had sexual attraction and arousal to women, but has a disproportionate amount of arousal for trans porn , either through porn escalation or sexuality.

    If it's sexuality then I'm fucked, because I'm not into males that is absolutely certain, and I would never get with a trans because they repulse me, when I watch porn it's a dominant role I don't want to be touched or have anything to do with that area. Infact I probably wouldn't even be able to fuck them the reality would turn my stomach . So I don't really know what this is.

    It's been a while since I've been with any girls, and I think I've wired my brain to pixels, to visuals and not real life stimulation. I don't get hard watching trans it's all manual and it's either anxiety or taboo that gets me hard, but I will get hard unaided watching women . Regular porn does pretty much fuck all now , the guy doesn't do anything for me and I'm not into dudes. It's always been the female enjoying a dick, usually because I was having sex etc it was something you can relate to and it's a turn on. If you haven't had sex in quite a while memories fade. And it's just pixels eventually.

    I still get aroused by girls and regular porn , but I think my libido is bored.because it's been longterm visual not real, you watch cam girls and the pace they take it very slow so you can lose your hard on , I watched porn for a good 18 years and was always rock hard .

    Wtf knows , brain changes.
    Anyway I've escalated to trans porn , either escalation , conditioning or part of sexuality I don't know,

    Considering doing NoFap and possibly hiring an escort which I've never done before , to know for sure if pied, escalation is all porn related

    I get aroused and hard unaided watching cam girls but because it's been so long and porn is boring now it doesn't fully materialise easily the way it would when you are actually with a girl, I've never had a problem getting hard with girls, so I don't really know wtf is going on.
     
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  2. Prince6543

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    Escorts can't fix your PIED. For that you have to stay away from PMO. Yiu can however hire an escort to check whether you finally managed to fix PIED because masturbation is risky way to test it as it can make you relapse completely.
     
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  3. Hiring an escort is a bad idea. Illegal and morally wrong. And if neither of those things deter you consider your health and your end goal. Quit p and m and your pied will go away.
     
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  4. phwrancesco

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    Like a lot of this forum users you're halfway towards homosexuality.

    It's your choice btw, you can quit that trash now or keep going and become the "i'm straight but i love to give blowjobs" guy.

    I wouldn't test my sexual desire in a so mechanical way: there will be more tension and expectations that certainly may lead to a fail. Just find a girl you like and try to have sex with her!
     
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  5. verbeek75

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    Stop watching porn, most likely PIED should go away, just don't forget like many men, the first time with a woman after so long you might me nervous as hell which can cause problems also, don't get dishartened try to relax and go with the flow and try again preferably with a woman you like, in case you do go for a escort find one that does girlfriend experience and just tell her its been a while and your nervous.
     
  6. sam30

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    How long does it take to fix pied
     
  7. sam30

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    Is seeing an escort bad ?
     
  8. verbeek75

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    No I don't think it's bad, I have no problems with escorts they are normal people that have a different kind of job and in my country completely legal, they pay taxes like anyone else, it's just about your own expectations, also some are good escorts some are not. Just saying even if you have a bad experience with one it's not the end of the world, there a lot of nice escorts that can help you others are there just for the money. But play safe always.
    You are still only on 30 days, you are still healing and not healed yet anyway. So no rush I would say. Maybe you might meet some nice woman in the meantime.
     
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  9. Prince6543

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    If you want a number, then it will be number of years you're a porn addict for or number of months since you have pied.
    If you have porn addiction for 7 years then it can even take 7 months to cure pied
     
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  10. XxSagexX

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    I wouldn't pay an escort, because I did yesterday after doing 90 days of no pmo. It was very strange for me, could get it up very easily at first, but after a bj my little friend was simply dead... Also there were no real emotions, no connection to the escort girl, it was'nt what I wanted to have. So please, do yourself a favour and don't pay for Sex, it isn't comparable with real intimacy, real love and connection between a loving couple, trust me, it isn't worth it :emoji_disappointed_relieved:

    Please learn from my mistake and stay strong, trust in your way out of this bad addiction, your PIED goes away with time

    much love
    XxSagexX
     
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  11. domasfernandez

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    How come I know if my pied is fixed, if masturbating is a wrong way to check?
     
  12. You do vodoo rituals to summon a spirit who draws cards and tells you.

    In common language, you never know for sure unless you try it with a real relationship.
     
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  13. domasfernandez

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    I was exposed to porn in early 17s and now I have Ed but not sure if it is PIED. It's been two months now and I am struggling with loose erections. I'm 20 years old, no morning woods in past few weeks. I took pills prescribed by my urologist and those pills worked all great but as I stopped using them I got back to loose erections. Now I don't understand where the problem is.
     
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    So shall I not masturbate to check?
     
  15. You mean to say that if I got hurt by a knife, I would proceed to open my wound with another knife to see if it's healing well and infection hasn't set in. It's absurd. You can't check if your PIED has cured by doing the same thing that caused it (or at least contributed greatly).

    Anyway, you are free to do whatever you really want in life. So the choice is yours my friend.
     
  16. domasfernandez

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    Then how come I can assure myself that I'm cured with Ed?
     
  17. domasfernandez

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    Sorry if you find me rude, but this situation has made me aggressive and short tempered
     
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  18. Have real sex maybe. (The reason we don't recommend escorts is because the sex they offer you is not the same as natural people do. There is no emotional attachments, there is no pressure to satisfy the other party, you can be brutally selfish, all these things do not happen in real love making.)
     
  19. domasfernandez

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    Thanks for your advice. Looking forward to it
     
  20. XxSagexX

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    Don't worry, at some point, your morning wood will return, give your brain time to heal, you don't need any pills or some vodoo stuff, i also had PIED and I'm not fully cured yet, I saw, that you red my post so you know my story, but it gets better and better, trust me ;) Concentrate on other stuff, you know, that your PIED is cured, when your morning wood comes back gradually, don't try to test with masturbation, try with a real girl you love, that works 100 % my friend.

    I would recommend you to watch the videos of Gary Wilson, Gabe deem and so on, there you can hopefully get all your answers you are searching for
     
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