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HOCD/porn addition and gay porn

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Icetiger100, Apr 5, 2016.

  1. iRebootMyself

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    today i was on my 10th day and HOCD kicks harder for some reasons "the dumb finger shit thing" and i tested myself like a dumb mafucka and i lost it, a lot of people said it helped them. many stories of HOCD sufferers said that and it went away...
    you can message me if you want to talk about it
    god helps us all, this shit is a fucking mind demon
     
  2. Shockadelica

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    I feel you bro.

    I don't know where to start. I used to watch straight porn every single day and it didn't work for me anymore. I got too curious and I also watched beastiality (absolutely disgusted stumbling upon it) but with me it's like I want to discover things I haven't seen and when I see stuff like that I wish that I never watched it. I saw gay porn and I even cammed with gays because my mind has a mind on its own. It feels so easy, but in fact I never watch any guys in real life. I just want to know what love is, and I've gone too far in that world.

    Believe me, you're better of Porn at all. But the things you watch while having an addiction, isn't you at all.

    Sorry for my bad English here. I'm hella tired and it's not my mother language

    - iNick
     
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  3. tweeby

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    I'm not sure I believe you, you can make it look like your ring finger appears to be longer than the index finger by sliding all your fingers. The test MUST be done with your left hand flat against a table. If possible I would like you to post a picture using your iphone and upload it onto nofap for us to independently verify. (helpful tips, keep you hand flat and loosely keep your fingers together, make sure the picture is well lit, so you're not using shadows to influence the picture, remove any nail polish you might be wearing.)

    Here is another test you guys can do (I keep finding these for you guys), which includes and thereby proves the ring finger length test.

    http://www.gotoquiz.com/are_you_gay_bi_or_straight

    As I said before, those links about HOCD are NOT officially recognised by any health organisations and are therefore not legitimate. Guys, don't be fooled, if you're MO to gay porn you are most certainly gay, but's that OK you were just born that way and it has taken you many years to figure it out.

    Here's another thing guys, if you were all so convinced you're not actually gay but have HOCD, wouldn't you go out with your mates for a beer or coffe and say, 'yo bro, I'm 100% straight but the other day I jerked of to gay porn, LOL, hocd is a bitch man.'

    Or wouldn't you tell your mom or dad... Because it is so insignificant. But you know what? You haven't and none of you would ever dare to because, that's right no one would believe you. More importantly, YOU DON'T BELIEVE YOURSELVES. Why else do you keep asking these questions, keep doing these tests. If you weren't 100% sure. Even if you have a 0.000001% doubt, that makes you gay.

    But as I said this is OK, you're slowly coming to terms with yourself. For some gay people this takes years/decades, some it takes seconds. Enjoy the process and have fun. I'm rooting for you, you're all fabbbbbulous.
     
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  4. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    Who told you this? Did you conduct a survey of 1000 homosexuals/lesbians? Or, is this anecdotal evidence you've acquired off the internet, much like your self diagnosis - which, by the way is why self diagnosis never works. Ask any trained psychologist. This thread kinda reminds me of the Emperor's new robe. Funny story actually but enlightening :D
     
  5. Icetiger100

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    Lol dude stop being an idiot. It seriously feelslike I'm conversing with a 13 yo. There's no way you can be an adult.

    Anyways. I told that the finger thing is a load of crap and I've proven it to you.

    Did you not go to the empty closet link I posted? Here it is again.
    http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/94530-finger-length-ratio.html

    It's a bunch of gay people saying that there index finger is shorter than their ring finger. So this should debunk it all.

    Fingers don't determine your sexuality so don't start with that bull.

    Lol you keep sending these dumb uncertified Internet test that anyone could have made up.

    An Internet test doesn't determine one's sexuality either dude.

    Lol the links I sent you were from actual certified doctors and psychologist that specialize in ocd.

    Sure the TERM HOCD doesn't exist just like the term clean freak ocd and harm ocd doesn't exist. But ocd DOES exist and it comes in MANY different forms.

    It can be about obsessing over killing, being clean, and MOST DEFINITELY sexual orientation. HOCD is just a branch of OCD. Hocd is just OCD bit it's the obsession about orientation.


    People with HOCD

    • Currently suffering from OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)
    • Recurring unwanted or intrusive thoughts about your own sexuality
    • Constantly reassuring yourself that you are straight
    • Avoiding people of your same gender due to anxiety or unwanted fears that you might be gay
    • Worrying that you might be sending out “signals” that will make others think you are gay
    • Homosexual thoughts are repulsive to you, rather than arousing
    • Feeling no attraction to your same sex
    • Repeating an action because you worry that you might have done something in a way that makes others think you are gay (example: a man repeatedly gets up and sits down on a chair because he worries that he takes a seat in a way that looks too feminine). Repeating the action relieves the anxiety, but you need to continue repeating the action to continue anxiety relief.

    ^^^^^^ gay people usually don't do any of this listed above. This is an ocd thing.


    • Homosexual thoughts are enjoyable and/or arousing to the person, even if they hide their sexual orientation from others or are ashamed of it
    • Having had past sexual experiences with those of their same gender
    • Preferring to date or have sexual encounters with people of their same gender instead of with those of the opposite sex
    • Often, people who are gay report having felt differently than their same-sex peers at an early age. Additionally, researchers have found they preferred to engage in activities associated with the opposite sex from early childhood onward
    ^^^^^^^^^

    This is what true Homosexuals feel.

    Homosexuals can get rid of their thoughts easily but people with ocd will obsess pretty badly about every second of every day. They can't get it out of their heads. They don't like or get aroused by the thoughts and they'll get anxiety and keep on testing themselves.

    Testing themselves falls into the COMPULSIVE part in ocd.
    Obsessive compulsive disorder.

    Masturbating to any type of porn doesn't mean your gay or anything.

    I think it matters what you've masturbated to BEFORE the porn addition.

    Because your brain wasn't fucked at the time.

    I've explained this before bit I'll do it again.

    The only reason a lot of porn addicts escalate from normal porn to weird shit is because of DOPAMINE. They get bored with the normal porn and move on to something more exciting than that. Something new. Just to get that rush.
    I've been Masturbating to porn for 5 years straight EVERYDAY (even today...I couldn't help myself) so the normal lesbian and straight porn got boring to me since Ive watched it so much.

    Like me, they can go from just strictly lesbian porn then straight porn, then bbw porn then beastiality porn then transgendered person porn then gay porn, etc.

    It has nothing to do with your true orientation especially when you don't like that thing in real life. It's dopamine.

    And why do you keep calling me just gay based on the porn I've watched? Why don't you also call me a fat girl lover or a zoosexual? Why do you want us to be gay so much??? Sorry man but I'm just not.


    From reading your post its obvious that you really have no idea what you're talking about and have no idea about ocd or porn addition at all, and is just here to cause confusion for me and everyone else.
     
  6. Icetiger100

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    It's just common sense. If a person were truly gay and just started watching porn (meaning no porn addition ) then why the hell would the gay guy start off by masturbating to straight or lesbian porn?

    Doesn't make much sense.
     
  7. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    If you born into a world where everything was straight and gay was considered abnormal, wouldn't your first porn experience start of straight. How sure are you that when you was fapping to straight porn you weren't imaging a guy like you are now? Could it not be that your true sexual desires are now only starting to germinate? Could this not be a possibility?

    Hmmm? All I'm saying is you don't sound too sure?
     
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  8. Icetiger100

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    I doubt gay men would be masturbating to straight and lesbian porn strictly. In the beginning. They would secretly be watching gay porn. lesbian and straight porn would gross out most gays (without porn addition ) and they wouldn't be able to wank to it.



    What do you mean I don't sound sure?

    You make it sound like I've masturbated to gay porn several times. It's only been once. Because I was bored of the other STRAIGHT AND LESBIAN PORN that I've watched OVER AND OVER AGAIN.


    Imaging a guy? Why would I watch lesbian porn and imagine a guy???

    That's like watching gay porn but imagining girls.

    Doesn't make much sense.

    Whyre you trying so hard to convince me that I'm gay?

    Research more about ocd and porn addition then come back.
     
  9. CreatedRight

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    Just as P can rewire your brain, subsets within the P categories can hardware new atypical interests in you. This hardwiring can become harder & harder to overcome unless you take action to resists, NOW. Some resisting is so easy. Move your PC into the public areas of your home. Setting on your phone to limit access to P or times when you gravitate to P, use automated limits! I honestly hate P and have been clean from P for 40 days. BUT, and this is a big but, I have acted out with another person as non P-site triggers drove me to acting out. I DO NOT IGNORE IT WAS MY BAD DECISION WHICH CAUSED ATYPICAL BEHAVORAL after 30 days clean. Finally, please go to Sacred Sexuality Project and view Mark's video on Cold Water Shower Therapy. This amazing therapy truley helped me with mind over matter. Keeping in your typical routine which kind-of makes a compartment for P-time must be busted! New activities like walking your dog or exercising must interrupt the habit wires in your brain. Please explore no new territory on line. I have hurt myself exploring areas of new curiosity. You are not different than before you messed with Homosexual P. You excited new areas of the brain that reboots will cure.
     
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  10. diamondboi

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    Stop fooling around.

    Download grindr

    Upload pictures.

    Post on Craigslist list


    Advertise yourself as a straight guy who's curious. A lot of gay guys like giving g straight dudes blowjobs...test the waters. Might like it.
     
  11. Icetiger100

    Icetiger100 Fapstronaut

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    Lol I'm not doing that XD
     
  12. A lot of pictures in craiglist are porngrahic in nature and its
    Yeh right and craigslist has a ton of pornographic image in the singles section. Isn't this a place to overcome porn addition btw?
     
  13. CreatedRight

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    CRAIGS is the worst place to be. DiamondBoi, above appears to have banned for NoFap. Those comments are from him.
     
  14. I used to go on craightlist single section quite a alot up till a few months ago and it seemed that at least half the people that advertised there had a photo that was pornographic.

    Anyway porn what ever type of porn people view whatever it is straight or gay or even beastitaly or whatever else is dangerous and to be avoided.
     
  15. Old guy here. Crazy shit I have gotten involved with has been introduced to me by porn....stuff I didn't even know existed.
    Definitely don't start labeling yourself. HOCD is a real thing. So I have had sex with women and men. Women...it was like it was supposed to be. Men, it was WTF. Porn molds you. Thoughts don't define you.
     
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  17. CreatedRight

    CreatedRight Fapstronaut

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    Great concepts, I relate.
     
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  18. diamondboi

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    What are you even talking about? That poster is not me.
     
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  19. CreatedRight

    CreatedRight Fapstronaut

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    What does banned mean? Under your name?
     
  20. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    I made bold the most important things. Yep folks this is how it starts out... Oh I think I got HOCD, then you're out having sex with men. I certainly am not going to comment on what my take on that means. You decide.
     

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