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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by never_again, Nov 19, 2015.

  1. never_again

    never_again Fapstronaut

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    hello everyone , well im trying this now because everythnig that ive done till now regarding this has failed ... i dont know where to begin but i have observed this about myself that pmo well , all this stuff it kind of holds you back , and i dont want that anymore . Im 20 , never had a girlfriend though have had plenty of comments like 'how come you dont have one , you should ' which actually makes you feel even worse .
    So this is me and would love to hear from you all !
     
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  2. Picfiend

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    Welcome. Im sure you will find many likeminded individuals here who you can share experiences with and help eachother to beat PMO. Im rooting for you bro.
     
  3. never_again

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  4. ImDaniel

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    Hi man! Welcome to this community, I wish you all the best to reach your goals!
     
  5. bm12

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    Welcome buddy. We're rooting for you. You'll have to do the heavy lifting still but we'll definitely be here to take as much of that load off your shoulders as possible. When you start feeling tempted come to this place and look for a way out.
     
  6. Prov2611

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    Love your username, and as everyone said, and I've found in the past couple of days, this is a supportive place. Just take it one battle at a time. You can do this. We can do this.

    -Prov
     
  7. never_again

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    Thank you so much guys .... 4 days on its getting really tough and occasionally I find myself staring at porn gifs .... I don't go all the way but still I feel like I may might end up doing that someday ... Any ideas to eliminate that ?
     
  8. bm12

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    Stay freakin far away! That's like playing with a rattlesnake and hoping it doesn't end up biting you at some point. Get out of that hole before it gets too deep.
     
  9. Welcome brother. Be patient with yourself, you will succeed with time.

    As far as P subs are concerned, stay away from them. Some really great answers already.
     
  10. More4

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    Howdy friend! Know that you're not alone brother :3! Stay strong !!
     
  11. Gladiatori

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    Good thing you start NOFAP @ 20 man. The earlier the better! Don't feel bad about no GF. Societies behaviorism is all conditioned shit. In the old days, a man developed his stature first, and married second.
     
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  12. never_again

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    Man this place helps .... Whenever I get strong urges and am thinking of watching something , I always make it a point to come here first . And after reading about you guys and replying to some others ... The urges just fade away .
    It's great I'm on day 12 -13 .. Don't exactly remember .. It's kinda tougher since I'm back home from college and I get a lot of alone time in my room but you guys have seriously helped me out .. Thanks a ton!
     
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  13. Gladiatori

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    keep coming then :D.
    Eheee. keep coming Not cuming :D :D
     
  14. Hey Donut Tai! Sorry, I'm new to this...whats PMO? Mate from down South!
     
  15. IGY

    IGY Guest

    See The Glossary ^
     
  16. AlexfromNairobi

    AlexfromNairobi Fapstronaut

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    Keep up. The race is not for the faint hearted. We shall overcome!
     
  17. never_again

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    Damn ... Almost went off today and had to pull myself together at the final moment ... No going back ...especially now when things are actually starting to get better for me ....not gonna go back to fapping around
     
  18. Thanks IGY! Got it, don't mention the words! 5 days of success so far! Feeling really good...
     
  19. never_again

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    Relapsed .... It just happened ... Last few days had been too tough and I had started seeing some p
    Made it to nearly 20 days .... I'm calmer and I realise now what's at stake here ,time to make it over 40 ... I know I can be better ... I'm sorry I did it guys but I promise you this that I'm gonna make it
     
  20. You can do it!! I got to the same place, PM but luckily no O! I know, that almost sounds like I just justified what I did was OK, it wasn't and I'm getting there slowly. It takes time and patience and dedication. I'm finding it really difficult but I know that I will run this path to success! Keep The Faith buddy!! I'm on 31 days now...although did "partial relapse" as above (no O) and I'm married...and she wants it bad!!! Mountain climbing non-stop for me!!!
     

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