Hopeless virgin

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Fighttellumakeit, May 17, 2019.

  1. Fighttellumakeit

    Fighttellumakeit Fapstronaut

    Hello Fapstronauts,

    Am a 24 years old man who started to get addicted since 17. Year by year I went from being a healthy male to a depressed and unfonctioning man. The porn really hooked me up and I didnt realize that it will cause that much of harm to me. The last 3 years were awful to my as I developed a severe PIED. The harm it made for me lift me with no choises. I have tried many medications and visited alots of doctors and they all say that am normal. The embarssment of being with a girl and having no erection at all lift my wondering, has I lost my male functionality? Will it stay like this for the rest of my life? Only this year, I came across nofab and realized the emotional problem that me and many people are facing. But, since then I have been trying very hard to stop PMO. With many attempts and relapses the maximum I reached was 10 days!! Every time it becomes worse than before and even porn is not giving me any errction at all. But I still enjoy watching and fantasying. Today, my heart lift broken as I felt really bad after being with the girl that I love and failed to have any erection. I always blame it on the stress and that its my first time, but I know that its something else. The embarrassment and fear are only worsing how I feel about myself.

    Today I want to start fresh and leave everthing behind. With your help only i can reach and get my life back
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  2. Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

    You are in the right place for recovery here. We are so glad to have you with us to beat this addiction together.

    You can go read some Success Stories in the "Success Stories" section to learn more about the benefits of NoFap , get useful tips and ideas to help you in the reboot.

    If you have any question about rebooting, you can ask it in the "Rebooting" section.

    And i would recommend you to make your own journal in the "Reboot logs" corresponding to your gender & age to track your everyday progress.

    You may start by checking the links below:
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    Best of luck to you in your journey!

    -The Winner
  3. romlel

    romlel Fapstronaut

    Welcome man!!
    I had some similar experience inbed at a point!
    By rebooting mind and body, (a loving and understanding girl can help too^^)
    I got my hard on back.

    You need to stop watching porm and masturbate and keep flooding your mind with rebooting material!!

    Love yourself , give you time and a healthy lifestyle

    Don't hesitate to aks for advices
  4. Fighttellumakeit

    Fighttellumakeit Fapstronaut

    Thank you for your positive words. I hope that I get what am seeking in this journey. Yes I have read about having a good partner can help , but am not sure if this gonna be alright as I feel ashamed to be with a girl or share her my problem.

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