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Horny night screwed me over.

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Jensnedre, Oct 10, 2020.

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  1. Jensnedre

    Jensnedre New Fapstronaut

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    I am on day 21 or 22. But last night i was extremely horny. I went to bed at 12pm but even tho how much i tried to sleep or tried to think of something else i would just have huge bowners and small erections. This went on for five whole hours uintil i hit the point where i just mastrubated without porn just so i could sleep. Does this count as a relapse? I feel horrible. But i needed to sleep and it was pretty obvious that the hornines wasnt gonna end soon.
     
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  2. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    You don't post any signature counter with a "goal statement," but it is considered a relapse for M or O or both.

    When I was once in the same extreme sleepless situation (as you described it exactly), I applied an ice pack to my balls (applying no longer that 10-min intervals, then rest for a while, then repeat if needed), but always applying the cold pack with a barrier layer of cloth or underwear between the ice bag and the skin. It amazingly sooths down there enough to turn off taunting hormone-induced thoughts - if not fully, just enough to fall asleep. I rarely need to use it anymore, but I keep the ice bag in the event of a future emergency (who knows?). It's amazing the connection between the sex organs and sexual thoughts - they are intimately connected more than we think.

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  3. Asgardian36

    Asgardian36 Fapstronaut

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    It is upto you if you consider MO as a relapse instead of a PMO.

    You're 17, man! its great and sad at the same to see young folks here. Do you workout? I think working out is a great way to spend some of that energy. When I was 21, i thought I'd beat it in the coming years...i'm 29 now, still having the same hope. Don't be me.
     
  4. Jensnedre

    Jensnedre New Fapstronaut

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    Okay thank you. Yes i will try that the next time. Bit what do you mean with the goal statement part?
     
  5. Mo1989

    Mo1989 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah its a relapse in my opinion. nofap is about discipline and curbing the sexual urges when ur alone.
     
  6. Jensnedre

    Jensnedre New Fapstronaut

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    Well. I am young but i decided to quit when i realised how much i was missing out on. I have to start over now, but during thoose 21 days i noticed it was way easier and to be social and fears went away. I do workout yes. Well, now i’m not that experienced yet but i belive anyone can reach day 90 if they fight enough. I will not stop. Do it yourself and make YOU’RE dream come true. I belive in you.
     
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  7. Jensnedre

    Jensnedre New Fapstronaut

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    Yes. I do agree with you. Thank you
     
  8. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    Look at other guys' posts who have counters in their signature lines. In the orange part of the bar are stated one's goals, such as no Porn, or no P or M, or no PMO, or personal goals. So, what I meant here is that it may be difficult for anyone to answer your question, "did I relapse," without knowing what you're trying to achieve. Some on here just want to achieve an erect penis again to boink every one-nigh stand they can find, some want a better marriage, whereas others want to pursue a meaningful spiritual and moral existence. Then, there's every possibility in between these things. The reasons and purposes for recovery may vary greatly, and so are the means to those goals and what "relapse" means.

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