How bad is/was your porn/masturbation induced penis desensitization?

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  1. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber Fapstronaut

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    I'm asking cause i'm beginning to realize how bad mine used to be and i'm quite baffled, especially because i wasn't even seeing it as a problem back then, i had lived with it for so long that not feeling anything was "normal" for me.

    For example, when i had sex, i wasn't feeling anything at all when i got oral and if i had piv there was only a very faint sensation. I felt no pleasure during actual sex.

    Back when i was younger i had read some stupid "tip" on the internet that to last longer in bed you had to masturbate to get desensitized, so i had used that as a rationalization to masturbate even more. It didn't even make me last longer, i just did not feel anything.

    What is your story?
     
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  2. OnTheEdge

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    I last had sex 3 years ago when I was in a pit of PMO addiction. I only felt something during oral and that was only when I made the girl do certain things (porn things). I didn't feel anything during sex. I actually had sex with that same person 7 years previous to that (it was an online relationship) and I had no problems at all then. That's how I know for sure it was me and porn and not the girl that caused these problems.
     
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  3. fake_jay

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    Mine is not so bad I think.

    I started NoFap for this exact reason. I masturbate mainly out of compulsion(bad habit) and not for my pleasure. I have not felt pleasure down there for a long time.
    Anyways, Here is my story. I am 21, a virgin and I have been masturbating almost daily and sometimes even 2, 3 times a day for over 7.5 years. I started to lose sensations 3 years ago. I eventually decided to do NoFap and I have been on and off NoFap for 2 years now.
    I have a very unusual way of fapping and I hadn't pulled my foreskin back until recently. Maybe part of the reason I don't have any sensations down there is because of the way I fap. My main goal from doing NoFap is to feel the sexual attraction that I once felt.
    However, I have realised that I am nowhere near that and I need to put in a lot of work. I am currently on my biggest streak yet and I have hardly got a boner in the past two weeks. This 'flatline' stage is making me very anxious and is the biggest challenge I have faced so far in my Nofap journey.
    Hope we all get what we are out to achieve
    Stay strong brothers!
    Cheers
     
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  4. I'm 36 and for the first time in my life, I actually had sensation. I was able to be on top (could never do that before due to PIED.) I was able to have successful sex, and orgasm with a condom. I could........not.......F'ing believe it. And then shortly after I relapsed and sent the whole shitshow spiraling down again.
     
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  6. ultrafabber

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    Very interesting, how long did it take to be able to do this? And how bad was your pmo addiction before?
     
  7. FightingTriton

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    VERY, VERY, VERY Bad.

    Here's the thing. What got me to realize how bad it was, was when i gave up some of the more intense articles of my porn collection, and had a hard time staying hard for the PMO. Then, i realized i had damaged myself greatly, and that's what caused me to quit watching porn.

    it's been a week and I cannot get hard just using my imagination of topless women. hell, if i look at a photo of a topless woman it'll probably barely affect me at this point. that's flatlining, and i appreciate it deeply because i know now my brain is fixing itself. it'll take a while considering how long i went for.
     
  8. Couldnt get hard to porn in the end and fapped with a limp erection for two years +
     
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  9. FightingTriton

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    That right there is probably the most damaged you can get before your penis falls off.
     
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  10. Samuel Camacho

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    Well, it happened to me that when you touch the very hard penis it just enjoy itself, this can happen because of the high sensitivity in the head of the penis. Today to avoid this, I leave it always exposed to accustom, no longer happens.
     

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