The reason I say that is because some of the Christian explanations make sense to certain problems. What I hear is two explanations for suffering. 1) Suffering makes you stronger and you learn lessons from it. 2) Once you've been through suffering you can help others who are going through similar things to you. In some cases, this works but in others it doesn't. I mean someone who kills themself is neither stronger or is able to help others. It seems to me some people go through things they just can't cope with.