Hello fellow rebooters, I have a problem in my life/reboot that I would like to share with you all. It bothers me a lot and I would appreciate every comment and advice. Almost exactly one year ago I have met my ex-girlfriend. She is a very kind person and we connected soon. To that time I werent a virgin, but I never had a serious relationship with a girl. She, on the other hand, was living 15 min away from my house and we did go to the same college. We spent almost every day together and our relationship was beautiful. To that time I already was Porn addict and did PMO almost daily and to an extent I could often not get full hard while I made love with my girlfriend. I really felt stupid, having a beautiful girlfriend I had regularly sex 3-5 times a week but still masturbate like an idiot and destroying my libido. However, time passed and we both finished our higher education entrance qualification and had to make future plans. While I decided to make an extra year on college to extend my qualification for my dream study program, she decided to study in a city 12 hours away. Her parents also moved away at that time so she had almost no choice. We both agreed to end the relationship because our ways in life will just further separate. The break up was really hard for me and I started binging to porn. I tried to kill my libido so I wont have sexual thoughts about her, but PMO made me just more fall in the hole. Therefore in Novemeber I tried to tackle my problem and started NoFap more serious than ever. Since then I make great progress, for example PMO is for me not a habbit anymore. My streaks get longer and I feel again more joy in life. But what still bothers my so much are my thoughts on my ex-girlfriend. They are even the most significant reason for relapsing. For example the anniversary day I met her, or the day after she made a visit. These thoughts about her make me feel so sad. Not just that I miss the past, I often have thoughts about the future if I will ever find someone like her again. Worst of all I almost every second day have sexual dreams about her. After waking up I feel devastated. Do you know any advice how to overcome these thoughts? Should I quit contact with her? How to get rid of these sexual dreams with her? thank you for your time reading this.