How did it get to this

Hi.

Quick background, I was married for 18 years and there were long periods of no sex, as much as I tried to deal with it. I turned to PMO. Often regularly and ended up needing M to sleep.

I’m now in a new relationship where we both enjoy sex and it’s an important part of our relationship. I’ve been having issues with ED, which I have medication that seems to work although still have some problems with O.

I want to work at a reboot whilst maintaining a real sex life. I don’t think I ever linked P to real sex.

I would like to beat this.