That is an interest notion, porn induced Peter pan syndrome. I get it, it's like all the little 'time to grow up' moments were avoided by hiding from it with pmo. Now they have all accumulated and compounded into a huge heap and look insurmountable.
It gave me ED and I ended up having sexual performance anxiety. I have since almost recovered especially after two reboots.
I wouldn't say porn , I would say life did. Porn is just a fucked up outlet But functionally speaking . Some ed usually just in the periods you watch it too often it desensitizes you abit . My cock isnt as full because of pmo . staying away from porn adds length and girth . And I'm not 100% decided whether it's life , some sort of dysthymia or whether it's from years of porn . But just totally disconnected disconcerted with the world around me. Stopping only brings me benefits
Wastes my time and gives me weird contractions in my dick the day after. I spend HOURS at this shit finding the right video when I should be studying. Shit even going on a walk and listening to a podcast would be better then the time I waste starting at titties and pregnant bellies. This leads me to feeling like an absolute creep the entire next day. I'm installing *** right now.
Let's see now: 1. My self-confidence is lower than that of my peers even though I achieved so much more in my life 2. I put myself in bad situations willingly so I learn to adapt and man-up at times 3. I viewed women as people that should 100% do whatever I want in bed. If she doesn't do it she can get the hell out. 4. I viewed imperfections of the body like fatness or something else as utterly revolting and continue to do so. Chubby sometimes is hot to me but excess is bad. 5. If a woman have small breasts I let myself down.. I want her to be with big jugs that I can play with otherwise its no good. 6. If a woman doesn't want to do kinky stuff I need more time to ejaculate and stimulate myself. 7. Depression! 8. Inability to communicate properly due to brain fog. and many more probably that I can't think of from the top of my head.
It was like readin my own story! We are so alike. Life did a good number on us and porn capitalised the situation.
1. my one eye is blurr 2. i have a defect porn give me , cant tell 3.ruined many moments with wonderful women. they all see me as an impotent. what a life , i feel like dead. 4. ruined college life like hell.i wonder , if my friends remember me ever , that much coomer i am 5.no job , no money 6.no motivation in life , my mind is programmed like porn is the biggest thing in the world. 7.everybody think ill of me and some even take me for granted. 8.i failed in life , i have no consistenacy in anything. for me , i am not a porn addict , i am actually a fap addict , porn only make me fill that void. so from birth i.e genetically i am a sex addict.
Pacified state that rings a bell . Porn just numbs you tfo to the point of disassociation which is surreal but unfortunately a very real part of the problem
I had to approach it by first getting therapy to work through the anxiety, which helped me recognize my issue with PMO, which then helped me find better ways to deal with anxiety (although I’m still working on it)
Porn is like sand paper to my nerves everything agitates me causing anger, trauma, and anxiety. It's like every small feeling goes to extremes.
I don't want to blame FAP for everything, but porb has ruined my life - it sucks the kife force out of me abd prevents ne from being courageous with women. 7 years I can not bring myself ti quit. I'm crying inside, but can't actually cry... I need help, bit no one except me can help me
