How Did You Learn About Sex? - Possible Triggers

I was banned from sex education classes by my parents so I didn't learn about it from school. I kinda figured what went on during intercourse on my own but didn't know about other positions until I saw porn. It was quite shocking for me when I first saw it.

 

I watched a lot of TV sitcoms where people would mention having "the talk" with their kids, and I wanted to know what they were talking about, because everyone always laughed and found it funny and I didnt get it. So I asked my mom what "the talk" was and she told me.

 

I never learner about sex but I learned something which destroys a mans life. Sex create bond between husband and wife . But porn never taught me that it's just a something that man used to control or destroy people life. Porn can never be compared to sex because both are different.

 

Porn consist of actors who will do anything infront of a camera but in real life it won't happen like that way.

 

I don't remember. I guess it just happened because it seems like i always knew. I think it was some combination of school and movies. I know i knew by 2nd grade for sure because i remember talking about it.

 

This sentence makes it sound like you don't know how to have sex but I assume you know.

 

Well I do . I didn't mean like that .

 

When I was young, there was the sex channel that we didn't get, but every once in awhile it would unscramble for a few seconds and there it was... right before my innocent eyes. The mystery was solved. After that, I was on a mission to discover more.

 

I rented books in the library about sexuality. Some with real images of guys and girls naked. I remember a guy who was masturbating, lying on bed. It was a real picture. I thank that was also my beginning of porn addiction. But the books learned me everything about masturbation and sex.

 

I didn't learn it. It started with fantasies, then curiosity to find if that fantasy is real on life using the technology we have. and shit everything on my mind was real lol. I remember the first Triggering photo I saw in my life that I searched about by using Nokia 3110n Model on 2g network.

 

My parents didn't want to talk about sex. I started looking at soft porn in about 5th grade. So I'd seen naked women but didn't know about sexual intercourse. In 6th grade I remember trying to talk to my dad about how I was starting to like girls and he only told me to stay away from them. He wasn't interested in me learning about girls only interested in me doing well in school.

It was in 6th grade that I was introduced to intercourse by watching porn. I never learned anything about sex from my parents. I learned most of it from porn.

 

For me, it was mainly porn. I never directly asked my parents what sex was. Ever since I was around 5 or so, I always experienced attraction towards women, but I never really knew what it was, just that it was there.

It wasn't until I was about 13 that I stumbled upon my first couple of pornsites from curiosity and boredom. After viewing what I viewed, I remember being pretty much shocked for about 2 days (some of the shit I saw was plain weird, but not extremely gross), then my curiosity grew into the reason why I'm here and how I know about it today.

I think my parents eventually realized I knew about it and whenever certain things came up, they'd give me advice. They gave me a lot of wisdom associated with having sex, like buy your own condoms and don't accept them from girls, don't be a horndog, and unless I have a stable job and I love the girl, never get her pregnant, etc.

They taught me some stuff on how to do it safely (plus research from myself online) and I taught myself things like how to help a woman achieve orgasm and other stuff like that from research online. (proper research, not porn, that shit's fake as hell)

Essentially, they never taught me what it actually was, but they taught me some safe ways to go about it and tidbits of wisdom to ensure I don't potentially screw myself over.