Idkwhattoput
New Fapstronaut
Hi all,
I’m new to this and I’m sorry in advance if this is in the wrong section.
I started nofap about 4 days ago and I think this is probably one of my longest streaks. I’m 27 and I’ve been married for 1 year together with my wife for about 6 years. At the beginning of our relationship we had regular sex but after a while I started getting involved with PMO again.
Fast forward to now and I’ve told her about my attraction and reliance on porn. It’s cause me to not be intimate and us to behave more like friends and not lovers. I don’t blame her for any reason.
I’m looking for some advice. Every time we talk about it, she feels as though it’s an issue with her. She feels her weight might be an issue or she might not be pretty enough and I don’t know how to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her. It was issues I had/have. I want to bring the intimacy back to our life’s. I just don’t know how to put her mind at ease and how to reassure her that she’s not to blame. It wouldn’t matter what she looks like, I would still have issues.
I hate hurting her and I just want to stop this.
Thank you
I’m new to this and I’m sorry in advance if this is in the wrong section.
I started nofap about 4 days ago and I think this is probably one of my longest streaks. I’m 27 and I’ve been married for 1 year together with my wife for about 6 years. At the beginning of our relationship we had regular sex but after a while I started getting involved with PMO again.
Fast forward to now and I’ve told her about my attraction and reliance on porn. It’s cause me to not be intimate and us to behave more like friends and not lovers. I don’t blame her for any reason.
I’m looking for some advice. Every time we talk about it, she feels as though it’s an issue with her. She feels her weight might be an issue or she might not be pretty enough and I don’t know how to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her. It was issues I had/have. I want to bring the intimacy back to our life’s. I just don’t know how to put her mind at ease and how to reassure her that she’s not to blame. It wouldn’t matter what she looks like, I would still have issues.
I hate hurting her and I just want to stop this.
Thank you