How do I get rid of/control my fetishes?

Ok so I have multiple fetishes all of which revolve around women. I'm hoping find a woman someday and I don't want these fetishes hindering my progress. Fetish #1, PVC clothing. Fetish #2 Bondage. Fetish #3 Tickling (but in a fun playful manner not torture). Fetish #4 Feet. Fetish #5 Hair. Fetish #6 Panties (smelling them not wearing them). Fetish #7 Older women. Fetish #8 C.B.T. (cock and ball torture). I really want to get rid of these fetishes because I don't want them interfering with my chances of getting a job/career. Or finding a good woman to love so if you can tell me ways of eradicating these fetishes or at least tell me ways I can control them I would appreciate that. ​

 

Let me break it down to you. Fetishes are driven by the pain and pleasure theory, by porn and masturbation, it is made possible to you to receive pleasure from the most painful things, causing a over-surge in dopamine release. I can further explain by a simple example. Suppose you are good at English but bad at math. You top both these exams, what gives you more pleasure, topping in math or topping in english? I suppose topping in math. Because you got pleasure from something you were bad at or something that usually disappointed you. In animals, these kind of things cause conditioning similar to that of pavlo's dog. Here's a good news, a fetish exists in your mind. If you have control over your mind, you have control over the fetish. Keeping it simple. If you knew your fav dish had poison would you still eat it? If you're sane, you wouldn't. Why? Simple reason- Self control. You know what's good for you bro, do you really think any fetish can harm you? If you don't want it to harm you, it won't. Stop porn stop these fetishes right now you got all the time in this world. I made a commitment to myself, I said, I won't be quitting nofap till the time I am over these fetishes. You just need a strong will.

 

Don't worry about it, get busy with life. You will be fine, get someone you love and someone who loves you back. Invest in real things, it'll be okay.

 

Update on my fetishes: Fetish #1, PVC clothing: eradicated. Fetish #2, Bondage: controlled. Fetish #3, Tickling: controlled. Fetish #4, Feet: controlled. Fetish #5, Hair: controlled. Fetish #6, Panties: eradicated. Fetish #7, Older women: controlled. Fetish #8, C.B.T.: eradicated

 

Yes this is the way to go. Porn is a drug. It will be hard to deal with anything while a drug addict.