How do I not “finish” during sex?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by enz, Feb 21, 2021.

  1. enz

    enz Fapstronaut

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    Don’t want to lose semen
     
  2. Tuscarora Rover

    Tuscarora Rover Fapstronaut

    Focus on relaxing the body throughout. Don’t allow buildup of tension and don’t allow yourself to get anywhere near the edge. Don’t focus on visuals but focus on touch instead
     
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  3. don0529

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    For sure, the girl has to be on board and understand what you are trying to do and support that-- meaning to slow down and not push you if you get too close to the edge. the best case scenario is if she also wants to have a higher level of sex with you-- the kind where orgasm isn't the main focus. Just a circulation of energy and a deep inner merging with one another. You create enough stimulation so that you have some energy to circulate but you don't peak. You enjoy the valley more than the peak. Of course that is very intimate though and most wont be comfortable doing that and the mind will start saying "this is stupid or boring and worthless". The couple will have to have already established a very high level of comfort and vulnerability and intimacy with each other to enjoy such communion.
    But if that's not an option then at least you shouldn't lose your energy. And so, still, she will need to respect that, and therefore let you go a bit slower and not be so obsessed about orgasming so quickly. If you do get close to the peak (90 or 95 percent) then tighten up every muscle in your body, clench your teeth, and hold your breath, and stop moving (and her too) and then and pull upwards until the energy starts to go up a bit. At first the energy will just reach your navel maybe, but the goal is for it to travel all the way up to your brain. That can take a lot of practice though (most wont put in the work and time to get those results). Its a creative evolving art like any other true art. It wont happen a just a few sessions.
    But its great to have sex without orgasming because of all the energy that you accumulate. You absorb her energy plus you keep yours!!
     
  4. The Archangel

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    What's the point of having sex if you aren't gonna finish?
     
  5. TheForsakeen

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    they believe semen retention give all sort of superpowers(even though you will likely lose some pre-semen while sex-edging and after pissing(to clear the urethra)) don't try to convince them otherwise they are set in their ways and its a waste of time, best cases scenario they will convince you too.
     
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  6. The Archangel

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    I know that many successful people use to practice semen retention to give them an extra edge, for example, Muhammad Ali was one of the many boxers who refrained from sex and masturbation while he was training for an upcoming fight to boost his athletic performance, and many artists did the same to boost their creativity. However, they didn't really make a lifestyle out of it - they just practiced during the duration of their project/event because they knew it wasn't necessary to continue afterwards. Sigmund Freud is the only person I know who made semen retention part of his lifestyle. Although he was an overall great scientist, he had some terrible theories.
     
  7. TheForsakeen

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    lots of successful people who practiced abstention (or as i like to believe successful people that happen to practice abstention) but these guys believe in sex/masturbation all right just not in wasting semen..
     

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