How do I stop making comments and thoughts about woman bodies?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Aléxandros, Jul 13, 2020.

  1. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    When I am on the beach, when I am walking down the street, when I am with my female friends, I can't control myself from commenting and having thoughts about woman booties and bodies. Even though I am on my 253rd day of NoFap, the libido is too strong and I can't prevent myself from looking at chicks outdoor. It is obviously better than watching virtual girls, but I feel like a jerk and a perverted man. I want to stop thinking about girls, I want to stop chasing them like an idiot and I want to become the purest gentleman out there, that will treat a woman as a person, not as an object.
     
  2. James271993

    James271993 Fapstronaut

    I can relate. The first thought I have when I look at a woman is are they attractive and would I want to have sex with them. It does make me feel like a bit of a pig. However, I do think it is natural because we are depriving ourselves of our natural urges so they will be heightened. I don't know about you, but I am only using NoFap so that I can have a healthy sexual relationship with a new partner once I meet them. Not because i think it is wrong to look at women and be turned on or off.
     
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  3. You are a man and you have libido. It's totaly normal. You have your sexual needs, so it's natural your body and mind signalize if they are not fullfiled.
     
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  4. James271993

    James271993 Fapstronaut

    The problem I'm having (I'm on day 16 without porn) is that I'm craving porn more than I am sex or masturbation! I have built up this fetish for anal porn and it has been on my mind a lot over the last few days, especially when I go to bed. However, I have a near flat line libido. Like my mind is telling me that I want to watch porn but my body is not responding as if that's the case.
     
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