How do I stop myself from purchasing from Cam Sites?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Jimb0, Feb 6, 2019.

  1. Jimb0

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    ^ I've tried contacting my bank to try to stop future purchases from this website but they cannot do anything about it. I can't even put a limit on how much I spend on the website. It's getting out of control and don't know any solution. I still need my debit and credit cards so not having one is not an option. Need your help
     
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  3. yyz33

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    probably website blockers like cold turkey I would look into that
     
  4. Jimb0

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    Okay so months later I still have this problem. Luckily I was able to tell my bank to decline any charges from this merchant. However, there's still PayPal who don't have the option to do this. I'm not ready to go cold turkey yet, I'm hoping that I can first stop myself from using their services. Sadly I looked up everything I could online and don't see a solution to this.

    Edit: Might I add I don't trust myself with this site, but I'm not ready to let go of the site altogether. I know I will go back to this site again, and use PayPal to purchase something.
     
  5. IR254

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    Dude, this might sound a little harsh, but I feel like you need to hear it anyways.

    You clearly have a problem with this site. If you want stop spending money on it but you can't, then that is a crystal-clear sign, that you will never be able to visit the site again. You will have to understand this fact before you can take any steps on solving the issue.

    So, from my perspective you have two options:
    1. Do nothing. Keep going back to the site and wasting your hard earned money on some random chicks. Or:
    2. Take responsibility. Block yourself out of the site (there are multiple tools to make that happen) and accept, that you can not go back.
     
  6. IGY

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    Jim, that's your problem right there^

    In other words you are not ready to do the NoFap challenge and you are not ready to recover from your addiction.

    Any addict has to admit their addiction and they have to want to change. At this moment, you don't want to change. Any rationale you put forward to counter this, is just denial. Have a long hard think about this and when you are ready accept the advice of @IR254 (above).
     
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  7. Fightyourlowerself

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    Hey man. I really don't want to encourage you to look at porn at all. This is the exact opposite of why I am here so please forgive me in advance if this causes a problem for you but...

    WHY????? ARE YOU PAYING FOR IT???? ITS FREE!!!!!

    Is there not enough free content to satisfy you? WTF are you doing?
     
  8. How about everytime you spend money on cam sites or shit like that you also donate money to this website :D
     
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  9. Fightyourlowerself

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    A really good idea Deku - maybe instead of the same amount do double what you spend.

    It will soon click that your working all day for money which is being wasted on porn and it should help you stop.
     
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  10. Yeah we don't want him to lose his house tomorrow alright ? XD
     
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  11. Fightyourlowerself

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  12. 60DaysHome

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    You have to go onto stream M and talk to the customer service represenatives to ask them to permanently delete your account and it will stop the payments on your account.
     

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