Okay so I have no actual intention of having sex before marriage, but I like to "feel" like I can. I have many girls who are friends, but as soon as i think of them in a sexual way I get socially retarded; like I stutter, and anxiety is beyond horrible. They usually see this, and look at me like a retard. How the heck do guys just have one night stands? Do you completely keep your mind off sex until the actual act? Or is my addiction whats causing this? I am a stud until i think about sex, it's so weird.