I touched on this issue on the intercourse thread but I thought I'd have a thread dedicated to this issue. How does having a PA parent affect the kids? If you look at porn as a parent do you fear your kids will find out? Have you thought about how you would explain it if your kids saw you looking at porn? Maybe your kids have found out and if so how did you deal with it? I think we focus so much on us and then our SO but we forget about how it's effecting our children.