How does it feel to click with someone ? When you find out that you both like each other and start hanging out a lot ? I've never experienced this, it was never mutual for me, so I'm not sure how this feels. When I get a crush on someone I tend to feel sad because it's not mutual and then it's just a lot of emotional pain whenever I'm in the person's presence or when I talk to her. So I end up avoiding this person because I feel that any interaction is just going to be more painful. Is that something that other people experience too ? Or have my feelings been transformed into something negative over the years ? I realize I asked two questions in this post, I'd like to hear people's thoughts on both.