How does one find a life partner?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Astgerte, Apr 7, 2019.

  1. Astgerte

    Astgerte New Fapstronaut

    How DOES one find a life partner? And I’m deliberately not specifying the gender because I wanna open up the discussion. I’m not convinced the advice that a cisgendered straight male SHOULD receive different advice from, say, a transgendered bisexual female.

    I kinda also want to leave sex out of it. Although, being a virgin, I feel maybe that is one avenue I should try to explore – that is, just to throw morals to the wind and DO it with someone, just so that I can say that I’ve done it, if only so that it doesn’t feel like some unattainable forbidden fruit that I may or may not be unconsciously trying to grasp at with PMO.

    I have read some internet e-books like David Deangelo’s double your dating, and the like. The advice on cocky and funny and don’t be needy and think you need to buy her gifts every day definitely helped, but of course I’m still here.

    And I haven’t neglected the need for self-improvement – that’s one of the reasons I’m on this website anyway. And I know trying to find “someone” shouldn’t be one of your life goals – it isn’t for me. But I guess it just frustrates me sometimes, because I think there’s something I’m missing.

    How does one do it? Relatable and pleasant one-off conversations are all very well but how does that evolve into a relationship? Yes of course I know it’s about having these conversations several times over an extended period of time but when and how do people become couples? The very idea that there is someone who is able to accept you for all your faults and want to be with you for the rest of your life is completely mind-boggling to me.
  2. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

    You find a real best friend you don't want to get your hands off of. There, perfect match.
  3. Briareos

    Briareos Fapstronaut

    You have to know who you are to know what you want... when you know that you can be more certain that you have met the right person that "fits" you.... relationships develop based on the participants, your chastity is something to be proud of, it is not something you get back once given away.
  4. Vilkas

    Vilkas Fapstronaut

    If you want to meet a life partner you must do what you want, have some activities , you must stop porn and dating site. real people are outside. i don't know if you'r gay or whatever ( and i don't care). just one thing: you have all the posibilities to meet someone you like in sports or bar or in the street.
    Sometimes the one you love for life appear when you don't except it.
    About you'r chastity, you don't have to tell your partner thaht you are a virgin. i know this feelings because i am a virgin too .

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