How I cured my sexual disfunctions (ED and PIED and desensitization) and how you can to

I'm at about 90 days no-P and 30 days no-MO. Getting morning wood pretty regularly but still feel a lot of performance anxiety. Wondering when to try sex again. It's been almost 4 months without intercourse for my SO due to PIED.

 

Morning woods are a great sign! It means your penis is healthy. Do you get erections randomly around attractive women? If so, that’s a good sign.

If it were me, I would have intercourse again. It’s long enough to test and see if it’s all healed

 

No erections during the day. Not much libido. Maybe still in flatline? I'm married and trying to restore intimacy. Still feeling some anxiety and worried about failing again even though my wife has been very understanding. Is 90 days of no-P and 30 days of no-MO enough to rewire?

 

First, try to be around attractive women and see if you can have erections. If yes, go ahead and try to have intercourse with your wife.

If still can’t do that, then maybe 90 day reboot is necessary for MO

 

LOL. Thanks for the advice, but somehow, "try to be around attractive women to see if you can have erections" doesn' t quite sound like a good idea for a married man. Isn't that a trigger for MO and what might have got me into trouble in the first place?

 

It might be a trigger but it’s actually a good way to control your desires AND test to see if your erections work. I did that

 

Hey guys, i am a new member!

I do also have PIED and i have a 7-day streak of no PMO at the moment (first streak).
I can get an erection but I am not sensitive at all. I don't have a girlfriend. How important is it to have a girlfriend (or rather to have sex) to get sensitive again while going through these phases?

I have also started a thread here (go to my profile and you will find) regarding this issue and it would be awesome if you could give me some tips on how to cure.

Thank you!

 

Hi,

I found out I have PIED.

Didn't know what was, I thought, I had some issue, but the truth is that for the last almost 10 years, I have been watching porn with my wife befoe sex, really was her idea, and is pretty interesting, new, and overall great.

But I realized having met another women, now that I cannot get, hard or maintain erection, I thought was ansia, or something else, after some research I found out that probably may be related to PIED, since with my wife, never had any problems, or masturbating, or the rare times I watched porn by myself.

Last night I talked with my wife, if his ok for her, to stop watching porn, and have normal sex, we had it few times, and was pretty good and romantic, so she said of course.

So is where we are now, stopping porn, and try to comeback to normal sex, I will update on it.

I dont know if there is somebody that can relate to my experience.

 

Just the topic I was looking for! I think I'm in Step 2 because I can have and maintain an erection during sex with my wife but can't reach the point of orgasm. How to I cure myself of this? I'm doing the hard mode challenge and I'm in week 2. My wife and I agreed to stick it out for the 90 days but after that, how do I get from step two to step three?

 

I agree with this so much. Discipline is key and so is having compassion for yourself

 

did you got cured man?

 

Man I wish I would've seen this thread earlier. I'm sitting on day 20 Of my second attempt. My first attempt was really surprising. I've had ED issue for us for years. Never really able to maintain an erection or really initiate sex without pills. In my first attempt MW and a lot of sensitivity came back fairly quick. To my surprise on around day 9 I had a full 100% spontaneous erections. I was waiting for it to go away like they usually do but this one actually had some staying power. I didn't want to waste it so I started to fool around with the wife. It only lasted about three minutes but I was just so happy that it happened. I had really cut back on my porn years prior to fully committing to this process so that may have helped with the sensitivity. The relapse came shortly after and since then there's been very little activity downstairs. Thanks for sharing your experience and giving some sort of timeline. I know everybody is different but hearing success stories are very encouraging. I've talk to my wife so we're battling this together. That was probably the best thing I've could have done. We still touch and kiss because she is a beautiful woman and deserves affection. But all the stress and anxiety Of if I'll actually be able to perform has melted away. That's probably help the most, I have to worry about disappointing her we're just enjoying each other's company and I think is bringing us closer together . Thanks man

 

very inspiring post. karezza is the opposite of porn, that's why it's what we need.

 

Goodnight folks I’m new here. found out that I have PIED last month from my doctor. I’ve been masturbating since im about 13 and stopped around two to three months now. I am 28. Lost my virginity with the use of pills since every encounter before 27. I’ve never had an erection while going to have intercourse which has lead to several failed relationships. Can you help me?

 

Yeah. Try not to touch your dick for 90 days reboot and see if you can heal from it. Can you try that?

 

Yea Ive stopped masturbate for about 2 months now. Can my girlfriend masturbate me or should I not touch it at all?

 

If you want to heal your dick, then it's recommended that no one touch it. It's up to you

 

Ok thanks

 

What is PMO? And MO

 

P stands for Porn. M stands for Masturbation. O stands or Orgasm