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How I cured my sexual disfunctions (ED and PIED and desensitization) and how you can to

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by HereIsMyNickName, Aug 20, 2016.

  1. The sun is the limit

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  2. Keys

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    Hi there the sun is the limit , congratulations thank you for your post and positivity you give me to much hope and encouragement from reading it
    Do you mind if ask your feedback I have 12 days of PM I didn't do the O as I tested after 6 days with a woman and could feel her touch and came very easy even though it was a hand job and that hasn't happened for a long time before PM should I do like you PMO for thirty days and then 60 days Pm or just stay with the PM for 90 days
     
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  3. The sun is the limit

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    @Keys i think it depends on your background, how severe the addiction and problems have been. How you felt after the hand job? For me personally I compare it with Alcohol: do you use it for enjoyment or to surpress problems. In the first case I see it as a good thing, in the second case it's addiction. If O gives you that enjoyment then go for it with your GF. I personally don't believe prostitutes are a good idea as some say as an option here on the forum. The main question is: does your behavior bring you away from your body or closer. And men are often very poor with their body awareness. That's the weak point and exactly there P strickes in and it's such a big topic for men. Women feel their body normally better, but that's not always the case.
    You have PIED or similar problems?
     
  4. Keys

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    I have Pied yes , when I had the handjob which I paid for I felt really good and masculine for the first time in my life ,I haven't been able to cum with a handjob or in a woman for a long time that proved to me my problem was PM
     
  5. The sun is the limit

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    @Keys I see. I would look for a GF. The new NoFap superpowers will help you to find one.
     
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  6. Ryes2099

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    I too am suffering from PIED. Reading your success story gives me hope. Currently on my 2nd day of no PMO. Hopefully I would go the distance. My longest streak is only about 9 days.
     
  7. Keys

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    HinRyes. Congratulations on two days , just do it a day at a time takes a lot of pressure of that way
     
  8. Silverthorn

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    Make it two.

    How many days are you at? What is your goal ?
     
  9. Silverthorn

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    Nice, man. I want that to happen for me. How long did you not do PMO in order for that to happen. I want that to happen for me. Thanks for sharing your story.
     
  10. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 8

    Loving meditation and breathing exercices :)
     
  11. Anonymous86

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    TC, did you do hard mode?
     
  12. Tommy_0113

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    To the OP, good story but it's unrealistic saying we must try to have sex after the 30 day mark. Not everyone finds it easy to get laid. And you can't explain PIED to every girl you try to have sex with (and likely fail with too due to PIED).

    Find a girl you like and don't talk about, or intend on having sex. Just chill, hang out, and kiss.
     
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  13. Silverthorn

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    I'm on Day 5. Try to get a mini hard on in the morning thinking of girls that I saw with clothes rather than porn. I'm not sure this will work in the long run. I think I need to be with a real girl afterwards than women I pay for. But I want to get a normal erection from women I pay for if I choose to do that.
     
  14. HereIsMyNickName

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    I relasped on Day 10

    I ad eout wiht girls all night, so i think that this was just natural and normal. No P of course. It was quick and relieving.

    I definitely see that orgams due to PM are really less pleasurable than real sex.

    I don't feel bad, or negatively affected by this M. I feel okay, but I have to admit, I'm quite chilling today. Not bad once in a while!
     
  15. HereIsMyNickName

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    Hey guys..

    I just relapsed on porn.. I have been put to huge stress tonight, and thisis what happened.. I don't even feel sad, angry or disapointed..

    It didn"t even feel good.

    I think that I will still have normal sex next time. One relapse is not enough to destroy all of it. We'll see.

    Here we go again, day 1 !

    My goal is to reach 90 days without P or M, which I never did.
    Still meditating every day:)
     
  16. Vincimus

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    I was able to go on a 128 day streak and managed to reach phase 2. However, I have relapsed since then and find myself somewhere between phase 1 and 2 again. It sucks going back in progress but I'm determined to fight this thing and overcome my ED for good. However, I am currently in a long-distance relationship. So I will not be able to have sex potentially until next year. My biggest fear is that when I do meet up with my girlfriend again that I won't be able to perform. Do you think the 160+ days (this is approximately the amount of time before I meet my girlfriend again) of no PMO will be enough time for me to at least last a while during sex?
     
  17. Libero

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    I am a fan of the original post. It gives me hope.

    I've been so stuck in phase 1 for years and for the past few years I've completely given up on relationships because I couldn't handle the awkwardness, the embarrassment and the shame.

    I made it to 90 days, first time, within the last 12 months but then I relapsed. I think the problems was that I didn't find anyone to move onto phase 2 with during that time. So I relapsed completely, and badly.

    Maybe I need to have another go and follow these guidelines.

    Thanks though. I hope it works.
     
  18. HereIsMyNickName

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    Yes, 160 days would be enough.
    But I doubt you will resist that long without O. Long distance relationships are not an answer, sorry.

    In my opinion, this won't work. You (We) need regular intercourse in order to heal. A long distance relationship won't do the job.

    But it is only my take on it
     
  19. HereIsMyNickName

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    Exactly, the problem is that you didn't find someone to be with. Now you know what you have to do ;)
     
  20. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 1 here

    It is crazy how I feel depleted, negative and not at ease.

    I know it is beause of my relapse of yesterday.

    PMO depletes us.

    Think about it: Having sex 3 or 4 times in a row: I feel great and energized after

    PMO ONCE: feel weak, and in a negative mindset, despite a 12 hour long night


    Yet i am not depressed, because I know what to do, and that it works, and i also know that I will have sex soon :)

    Back on track ! ;)
     
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