How I cured my sexual disfunctions (ED and PIED and desensitization) and how you can to

Yes, upper forties. Be aware though, I've been through some sh**. Divorced, unemployed at times, moved last year, three different jobs, was on an antidepressant that affected my ED, which I got off of, etc. However, on this site, you'll read numerous stories of both young and old men with PIED/ED issues and it's well known that a much higher percentage of young men are unable to perform sexually due to their apparent viewing of readily available internet porn. There's been surveys that show this to the be the case. Older guys like me didn't have the internet when we started viewing porn. Younger guys got started on graphic internet porn and it's apparently having a toxic impact on their sex lives. Doesn't really matter how old you are, and even guys much older than me will testify as to the advantages in getting off porn regarding their ability to get/keep and erection. The bottom line is that porn most definitely can have a negative impact on your ability to perform sexually.

 

Congratulations you are doing very well

 

I understand and I hire prostitutes. And I use condoms, always

 

Only a question: in the first 30 days, in which you said to keep no PMO, can I even kiss, touch and do preliminaries to a girl or do i have to quit?

I'm in the step "can get erection but can't mantain it without physicals stimulation" (only bj/hj, practically use condom is impossible)

 

HereIsMyNickName Brah, great post and congratulations for your recovery,
Im in the same boat, I have become impotent and cant get erection with women and thats when I got to know this nofap.
Im on day 17 of nofap, Im also taking dopamine antagonist to fasten my recovery,
Now , i have started to get morning wood, the erections are really strong as morning wood, just like I had in my teens, but i can't get erection without physical stimulation,
I have to touch my penis to make it erect/edge, Now when i do edging, the erection is stronger than before but the only problem I face is - I can't get erection without stimulation
Do u think i will ever get cured?

 

Ghost rider same is the case with me.
We have to stick to nofap for a year or so post which we can say for sure if we'lll get better.

 

But speaking truthfullly I've given up hope on getting better. Once impotent is always impotent.
Things like semen leakage, varicoceles, ED and venous leakage are not cured according to me, especially if a person is over 25 years of age. I am also 27.
People who fapped a lot with tight death grips can simply not recover at such an old age.
I've given up on the aspect of being cured now, however, I will forever stick with nofap irrespective of what happens.
I will never fap, edge or orgasm even if semen keeps leaking out everyday during bowel movement. And do hell with porn as well.
I am willing to see the other noted effects of nofap like deepened voice, confidence with girls and in general, lesser anxiety and better ability to give good timely response to people. All this does not happen if you have brain fog due to orgasms. I also read that people who quit fapping can build better body muscles so there are many reasons to continue with nofap even if we remain sexually debilitated forever. It can also improve our immunity manifold..

 

I dont think like this because im clearly experiencing signs of improvement like Morning Wood ( my Morning Wood is so hard that It feels like like im in my teens). So i know that its just a matter of time before i get cured.

 

I went to some doc and even he told me that at 26 I have high grade impotence caused by an earlier combination of antidepressants and fapping. He said he'd put me on some herbal medication and hopes to see some results. Nonetheless he said that I came to him too late.. should have approached him at or before the age of 25.
Lesson: Go to good doctors before the age of 25 post which PMO induced impotence could exist for your entire life

 

I dont think so.
I never had sex with a real woman, i always hired prostitutes for sex.
So i dont know what making love feels like or my brain has no idea what making love actually means.
So i dont have to worry regarding dopamine release when u make love.
I think its all about body's ability to heal itself, how much sexual experience u have had, etc.
I think if u have just overfapped and not made love to a woman,
i think 90 days reboot will completely solve your problem.
However, if your brain is already used to releasing dopamine while making love with a woman, then it might be more difficult for u because then it is difficult to change how your brain operated when u touch your woman and how much dopamine is released,

 

I've read a lot of successfull stories about rebooting and never heard about "sex after 30 days of no PMO must occur". There are people who rebooted completely without it. I don't say It won't speed up the process but it's not necessary .

 

I am in phase 1 i have an erection sometime, what do you think take pills and try to have a ejaculation with occasion partner?, i am near at 100 days and when i will have the chance to have sex i don't want miss it for a no erection