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How I Slew The Giant From Behind!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Apr 8, 2019.

  1. Keep strong!Tongue twisters, enunciation & articulation tips from Google are my snacks. These tips helped me get the best out of my now deeper/stronger voice.

    My goal is public speaking mastery. Nofap isn't! Neck crunches, tongue twisters, other enunciation/articulation tips, and Nofap are the means.

    The crunches strengthen my neck muscles making them stress-induced-voice-lost proof. The twisters and other articulation tips strengthen my tongue muscles against a mumbled/blurred speech.

    Nofap is the fuel. Nofap provides me with the energy to articulate. Nofap gives me energy to take those deep breaths enabling me project from my diaphragm. Nofap regulates the speed at which I gravitate toward my goal — public speaking mastery. The more fuel I have, the faster and the closer I'm going toward my goal. Thus, for once, if for nothing at all, I have a very passionate reason for not allowing a deliberate, reckless and selfish wastage or leakage of this fuel (semen).

    Occasionally, while standing in front of my big mirror ( and I must add that I'm also a big fan of mirrors — oh, yeah! Lol) about to dress up for an occasion, I'll catch myself gently & lightly pressing the tank (the testes/scrotum). Then I'll be saying to myself — "Dude! You've got a full tank down there! Lol! You can't wait for that family meeting! You can't wait for that birthday party to make the opening statements! You can't wait for that group discussion! You can't wait for that friend to come visiting! You can't wait for that presentation! You can't wait to interview those new clients! You can't wait to deliver your monthly reports to your boss!" Lol Etc.

    In conclusion, Nofap is great! Nofap helps. But even of greater benefits is when I make Nofap a means to attaining some more concrete goal — like public speaking (which is my goal now), rather than it being my goal.

    Others may be able to focus on Nofap simplicita and succeed easily. Yes! You have a number of guys like that. For others too that'll be hard if not impossible for them to succeed . I belong to this last category.

    By all means do Nofap. But if you keep failing after making Nofap your goal (like I was), then you may want to change the goal and use Nofap as a means to fuel that ambition together with other pro-Nofap means. It does no good to cast a net when the bird you want to catch is watching — my favorite quote in the the Book of Proverbs. However, you'll most likely be killing two birds with one stone! Like me, no more do I feel the burden of nofap and nofap-induced stress. For the seven (7) yrs that I've tried nofap, I've never been more free than I'm now. I had fapped for 6yrs before chancing upon nofap 7yrs ago. Thankfully, it is under my control now.

    Hope to hear from you in 30 days time how you're doing. Also in 90 days time! Cheers! By the way got my now deeper voice from
    https://vocularapp.com/how-to-get-deeper-voice/
    Thanks!
     

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