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How I will be able to stop looking at girls butts?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Sep 19, 2018.

  1. I believe you’re taking this out of context. Christ isn’t literally telling people to pluck out their eyeballs. He’s making a point that you are to remove things which are an immediate occasion of sin; no matter how dear or necessary they are to you. This is why He uses your eyes as means to drive the message home, because all of us have an attachment to our eyes and all of us deem them necessary. Yet in the light of eternity He’s trying to stress the importance of how even more important it is to never sin and that the loss of your sight would be a better thing than for you to greviously sin again.

    Yet how many of us won’t give up lesser thing than an eye in order to never repeat a bad behavior? Some of us wont give up a site; a certain friendship; or even a smartphone, because we deem them too important or necessary.
     
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  2. Maybe he is but no one understood him. Either way you won't be able to look at girls butts if you tear your eyes out. Lol!
     
  3. No way, really?
    Great. Let's go back to the topic of butts, please.
     
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  4. My brother in war I thought about you and this post at work. A female customer service agent helped me out and she has an amazing body including posterior. I didn’t want to lust so I walked along side her and talked to her. It’s a real temptation to lust and fantasize, I’m not going to pretend I’m a saint, I struggle all the time. But we have power to practice self-control and I was concentrating on practicing it.
     
  5. Clean Plate

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    Since we are porn addicts (im talking about the ones that watch it daily for years) I believed we are sensitized to the female body (in a sexual wasy) more so than the average joe. If you want to stop thinking about girls butts so much,I believe being PMO free for a signigicant amount of time is necessary to return you to your normal baseline. Since women ,and specifically, sexual urges are so ingrained into men (excluding gay men) this is a difficult addiction to take control over. Its possible though.
     
  6. If you think this is what this thread is about you've misunderstood the OP.

    Anyway, I think there was this church father who recommended people throw themselves into prickly bushes whenever they looked at girls butts and Origen of Alexandria may have self-castrated himself.
     
  7. Problem solved. And I don't think it's clever to dwell too much on what 'butts' do to men. I get it.
     
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  8. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Try to keep it at 2 glances, this also is my weakness. I like big butts and I cannot lie.
     
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  9. It looks like it
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    what an Origenal way to solve this issue!
     
  10. EXPONENTIALLY

    EXPONENTIALLY Fapstronaut

    Meditate on that. It's a secular forum and I'll have to stop our off-topic exchange. My point of view still remains. You can click on my username to see where I'm from wordly speaking, but I'm from Christ.
     
  11. Wait! Our friend doesnt want to go off-topic. Very good idea. Let us be above teenage forum level of debate. Apologies to the teens..
     
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  12. EXPONENTIALLY

    EXPONENTIALLY Fapstronaut

    That doesn't mean she has to get married, she also can just help a couple or a family or children or some groups, some house, some garden, some moral cause, the apostle Paul also suggest that it would be good if they abide in spirituality instead of the worldy traditional scheme of things. Everybody contributes one way or another for society and that is OK. But the topic here is avoiding wandering eyes because that's a source of sabotage for men (and women) !
     
  13. You are right; this thread is about wondering eyes. Well done for returning to that. I would like to hear the option of incredibly intelligent females also. People like doctors, lawyers etc. Concert pianists. Astronauts. Serena Wiliams.
     
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  14. GeorgeJetson

    GeorgeJetson Fapstronaut

    I try to do the same exact thing...look away and move on. However, I fall short all the time. Being aware of this problem is a great start for me, putting it into practice is an ongoing battle.
     
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  15. you think it is that easy but no body can do it !! however I wonder if you have any idea to at least care less about girls butts. I will be thankful to you.

    Thank You.
     
  16. I really loved your idea which seems pretty much radical. We all know that it is hard stop looking. In addition to that, you see nowadays even they most powerful people in the world get accused of sexual abuse toward women.
     
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  17. In my situation how do you want me apply the quote to solve my sin ? Isolating myself from the world in a dark room for example.
     
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  19. Jackb97

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    Chemical castration.
     
  20. I'm 234 years old now, so I think a middle-aged man should act with a little more control and dignity. I keep seeing men of even 60 ogling teen girls and I just think they can do better.
     
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