how is first sex?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by tejas 47, Jun 20, 2017.

  1. I Free I

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    I lost my virginity to a married women in the backseat of her corolla .
    Sex was good but it's something I'll always regret ... I was 18 .
     
  2. Messialdo

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    Sex is overrated and this whole "virgin" thing is really overrated too. People make it out to be a bigger and more serious thing than what it is.
     
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  3. xXkiller42

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    I wouldn't know, waiting till marriage.
     
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  4. xXkiller42

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    This could be a issue for me when I want to have kids in the future? I don't really care that I haven't seen porn really.
     
  5. phwrancesco

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    it was a shit for me because i couldn't get it up. This created some problems for me in the following years but nothing impossible to overcome :)
     
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  6. Third_Eye

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    Is sex really the only way to for, true love from someone.
     
  7. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Usually not very good especially if she is a virgin too but you never forget your first
     
  8. Third_Eye

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    I wish it was always forgettable.
     
  9. Potato93

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    Stifler's mom...

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  10. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Mine was a single college classmate. I don't regret it. We were both virgins. We were clumsy etc but she will always hold a place dear to me. I know I'm the minority here I usually am in these forums.
     
  11. Third_Eye

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    It shouldn't be that bad, and it shouldn't be that important to women. Just like breasts and butt size shouldn't be that important.
     
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  12. phwrancesco

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    no m
    no man, it was terrible.
     
  13. seaguy44

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    It's awesome. Vaginas are awesome. That's all I have to say. Honestly, I miss it.

    I'd say that sex with the RIGHT girl makes a big difference. Otherwise, it's usually not good.
     
  14. Scourge

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    My first time, I couldn't get it even halfway up and at first she thought it was cute. It ended with SPH and her cackling like a Final Fantasy villain as she left. On edit, does that even count as a first time? If not, then I was a virgin till only a couple years ago...
     
  15. seaguy44

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    If you penetrate inside her vagina, then it counts
     
  16. Third_Eye

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    But you shouldn't stress about it (I'm not saying you are). It should be brushed off, like dirt from your shoulder.
     
  17. phwrancesco

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    you are absolutely right. The right girl makes the entire thing.
     
  18. Third_Eye

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    If I ever lose my virginity [to anyone of any gender, and to anyone of any sexuality], I will purposely punish myself by doing things like...

    1. Sleeping on the floor
    2. Staying up all night, doing things like playing video games and being on the internet
    3. Allow someone to either punch me in the face, or in my balls.
    4. Not talk at all.
    5. Be neutral when it comes to my mood.

    etc.

    Even if i had sex with someone "special," I would still do this. And no I'm not trolling, I'm being 100% serious. No I've never been raped or physically abused, no I'm not "scared of sex," and no I'm not religious.
     
  19. daveplaysguitar90

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    When I got over my performance anxiety and quit porn long enough to combat ED, it was great. It did take me forever to get off though. I suppose that could be a good problem to have depending on how you look at it. And like others said, don't worry about the virgin thing. Not worth it.
     
  20. Like everything else you've never done before, it's awkward and underwhelming the first time, but worth it. The second and third time are better and better, but it takes a little while to get the fundamentals down. Once that happens, there's a tendency to lock into doing the same thing each time, but eventually you begin to work on style and flourishes. Every time is like a snowflake--there is lots of variety from one to another. No two are exactly the same, but some harken back to a previous experience. This too is an appetite and will be voracious when you're starving and content when you're satiated.
     

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