Is what my wife asked me today. After another relapse. I had a very long streak (year and a half and have now broken it a couple times in the last 3 months. How am I gonna change my behavior this time to get back on track? I feel like I've tried everything. I feel like I know every trick in the book. How do I get her to trust my behavior is improving or changing. I know my actions need to prove my promises and words. Dragging her along in this difficult process is breaking my heart and I hate seeing her so hurt by what I'm doing.