How Long After No PMO Until It Is Okay To Date?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Arbiter007, Apr 13, 2020.

  1. Arbiter007

    Arbiter007 Fapstronaut

    Hello,

    I am guessing the question on most peoples minds might be, how long after not doing any PMO until it is good to start dating?

    I am a Christian, so this might have an effect on the way I feel about it. I do know that I want to be completely pure for my future wife. Though, I know the desires in of themselves are not evil; mismanaging these desires can be wrong.
     
  2. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    Who knows buddy,it depends from person to person."Reboot" is 90 days(in most cases)i have seen comments that people after 90 days start with dating.But it depends if person have a PIED or how that person feels.When you feel comfortable you can start :)
     
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  3. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    Is really up to you. Start dating if you want to. If you feel uncomfortable while dating just stop and try again a few months later.
     
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  4. Sherlock_1277

    Sherlock_1277 Fapstronaut

    If u r able to appreciate the beautiful side rather than the sexier side of a girl after many days of PMO , i think its time..
    I really appreciate that u would like to be pure for your future wife.
     
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  5. Arbiter007

    Arbiter007 Fapstronaut

    Yeah, 90 days does sound like a pretty good goal. I know the Bible says it is not good for man to be alone. So, at some point I know for me anyways it is better for me to try and find someone so that I can manage these passions with that person.

    Thank you!

    Yeah, I want to be pure for her. There are a lot of girls that deserve purity from a male and aren't getting it in this day and time.
     
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  6. MrYang29

    MrYang29 Fapstronaut

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    Until you can control your lust. and seen a girl as a human being instead of a sex object!
     
  7. Arbiter007

    Arbiter007 Fapstronaut

    That's a good one!
     
  8. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    When you feel ready. I did have sex for the first time nearly day 90. Of course, if you don't have a decent streak you'll never feel ready.
     

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