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Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by djdcgc4, Sep 11, 2019.

  1. Sep 11, 2019 #1
    djdcgc4

    djdcgc4 Fapstronaut

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    How long does it take after stopping porn to feel a sex drive for your partner?
     
    djdcgc4, Sep 11, 2019
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  2. Sep 23, 2019 #2
    fredisthebes

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    It depends on so many things it is impossible to say. But for starters:
    1. How long have you been a P-addict? How bad has it got, and when did you quit?
    2. How long ago did you stop feeling a sex drive for your partner? Are you still sexually active with them?
     
    fredisthebes, Sep 23, 2019
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  3. Sep 23, 2019 #3
    djdcgc4

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    I’m the SO of a PA. I would guess 10+ years and probably more like 15. I know he was viewing hardcore material daily that drained his mood. Around May 1 st he began to cut hardcore and reduced to soft. The beginning of August is when I first noticed mood changes and a reduction in his sleeping habits. The sex drive started disappearing around March 2018 but really looking back it was forced I think. I felt like the drive stopped when he developed feeling for me December 17 as he could no longer view me as a sex object. Actual sex stopped all together by October of 18 but only maybe 3 times between March and October. Just resumed activity the end of August. He suffers from PIED but appears to be at about 70 % now. Says he has stopped altogether but I’m doubtful.

    Thanks for responding.
     
    djdcgc4, Sep 23, 2019
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