How many of you have experienced magnetism and female attraction during your NoFap streaks?

Have you experiences some forms of social magnetism and female attraction?

  • yeah, I think it's caused by NoFap and semen retention

  • yeah, but it's not caused by NoFap and semen retention

  • no, that's bullshit and placebo

  • not yet, since I only did short streaks

  • yeah, I think there's something hidden in us we need to discover

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Confidence boost for me, a “if I can do nofap then I can talk to whatever woman I want and get her attention” and so it has been multiple times. It’s still very much a numbers game though. I’m of the opinion that it’s one of those things that it’s always been there, not watching porn just helped to go through the deepest introspection and self therapy I’ve ever done, which finally let the confidence come out after all the dust settled.
 
ruso said:
Confidence boost for me, a “if I can do nofap then I can talk to whatever woman I want and get her attention” and so it has been multiple times. It’s still very much a numbers game though. I’m of the opinion that it’s one of those things that it’s always been there, not watching porn just helped to go through the deepest introspection and self therapy I’ve ever done, which finally let the confidence come out after all the dust settled.
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confidence is key and NoFap contributes to make you a full-grown man, which girls love.
 
Aléxandros said:
Has anyone got some serious events to tell us?
Like some sort of attraction that was unpredictable and with no explanations unless with NoFap.

Just for fun
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I had a crush on this girl back in december and I eventually told her. She rejected me and we broke contact for several months basically until march this year when she messaged me and wanted to meet. My crush for her had dissappeared by then but we stayed friends because we had a pretty good friendship before. Then I started ramping up several good streaks and I met her almost weekly for a while. At 45 days clean I rejected a sex offer from another friend of mine because I was going to give this girl a second shot. Then about 2 weeks ago she changed how she behaved around me. We met two weekends in a row and had a total of 5 dates which lasted on average 5 hours I believe. I was upping my flirting game but she was at some point even bolder than me. Touched my thights, leaned in really close etc. So we got pretty intimate on our last meeting. I was almost about to kiss her a few times and she was ready. Unfortunately I didnt feel it when I had the chance. I am going on a 2 weeks vacation now and nofap is my number 1 priority. When I get back I believe I will be ready for that kiss. She is the prettiest woman I have met in a while and I am pretty sure nofap is the key to success here.
 
Yesterday evening I went for a walk with other three friends.
People of my age are studying for the high school exam and my group is mostly made of these students.

So there were not so many people in the streets and we were only four.

While waiting for my friends in front of a shop, I experience some forms of attraction, but not that much I think.

Two girls that were younger than me started doing TikTok's next to me, then pretended to record themselves while passing in front o me (so that they could photo shoot me or something like that).

They were like 15 or 16 so I didn't even pretend to give them attention.

Other than some other looks with other girls, it was a pretty simple evening, I expected more (I was even wearing a nice light blue linen shirt)

Anyway, still grinding at the gym and with NoFap, better experiences will come.

The start of the summer, especially with covid, is always pretty sad for me, don't know why.
 
Honestly, I don't think it's real. Most of the few times I've been approached by women, I was only on a shitty 1-3 day streak (I'm usually on a shitty streak most of the time) and when I was on a 14 day streak (my record), I didn't notice much of a difference. When I'm on a decent streak, I tend to be more aware of my surroundings - thus I notice more glances, stares and smiles from women which I probably miss when I'm on a shitty streak. I also exercise, dress nicely and overall take care of myself regardless of my nofap streak. Nofap motivates a lot of people here to do things like that - which are more important for attracting women than nofap itself. I mainly believe nofap improves sexual, athletic and mental performance, but not so much direct female attraction - that's done by overall self improvement, not nofap alone.
 
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Honestly, I don't think it's real. Most of the few times I've been approached by women, I was only on a shitty 1-3 day streak (I'm usually on a shitty streak most of the time) and when I was on a 14 day streak (my record), I didn't notice much of a difference. When I'm on a decent streak, I tend to be more aware of my surroundings - thus I notice more glances, stares and smiles from women which I probably miss when I'm on a shitty streak. I also exercise, dress nicely and overall take care of myself regardless of my nofap streak. Nofap motivates a lot of people here to do things like that - which are more important for attracting women than nofap itself. I mainly believe nofap improves sexual, athletic and mental performance, but not so much direct female attraction - that's done by overall self improvement, not nofap alone.
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Yeah, I believe both perspectives.

Sometimes it's warming to believe in something spiritual.
Some people believe in God, some others in some spiritual power related to our sexual energy.

Nothing too crazy bout it, just thoughts.
 
Hey guys

From my experience i'm more confident when i'm on long streaks and just overall enjoying life more. Therefore females (aswell as males) appreciate my company more, because who doesn't like to have a happy, confident and fullfilled person around?
But imo, those changes don't occur because of the fact i'm holding back my semen. I think it's a side effect of challenging oneself and overcoming obstacles and hard times. Just the same way people who start going to the gym and stick to it grow more confident as they push hard again and again and again.
It's just that nofap seems to be very effective in this regard. The reason I think is the rebalancing of the neurochemical system that comes along with this challenge. We tend to have a higher amount of happy chemicals released in everyday life and especially social interactions when we don't blow them off all at once all the time when we are alone in our bedrooms.
 
I'm 19 years old and still a virgin in all honesty, but I blame myself for it in all honesty I've only gotten through short streaks before relapsing I've noticed I have been getting taller, thinner, and more muscular since I've gotten to 30 days but I'm unsure if that's enough to attract women as I have several flaws.
 
IMO attraction depends on the guy himself’s nature and his appearance, nofap role is to light up this real attractive guy after PMO killed him, when attractive guy fap he lose his attraction and nofap helps him to get it back,but there are many guys like me who aren’t attractive so nofap will not make them attractive, today is the day 60 of nofap and didn’t have any glance of admiration , the opposite happened when I called out the girl that I had crush but she didn’t answer
 
Khelloo said:
IMO attraction depends on the guy himself’s nature and his appearance, nofap role is to light up this real attractive guy after PMO killed him, when attractive guy fap he lose his attraction and nofap helps him to get it back,but there are many guys like me who aren’t attractive so nofap will not make them attractive, today is the day 60 of nofap and didn’t have any glance of admiration , the opposite happened when I called out the girl that I had crush but she didn’t answer
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You should ask yourself: is there something to do to make you look better?

get a cool haircut
go to the gym
cure some acne if you have it
shave, or grow a nice bear
take care of your eyebrows or body hair
eat healthily
sleep good
drink a gallon of water a day
read some personal growth books that might help you

there's always room for improvement,
and I am a totally different person from who I was in the beginning.

You can't stood with what you are, it's time to change.
 
Ive being doing nofap for..... 2 years i think? Almost 2 years yeah and yeah its very good it helps alot getting atraction from girls and it increased alot since i started nofap but before nofap when i was 18 and started changing my life , atractiom from girls also increased and at that time i still didnt nofap , but with nofap it boosted alot and now i can atract really hot girls, also because i have a good phisic
 
And right now dispite some relapses kf the relapses are few and just one i dont see much retrocess , its like some things are so solid that is very difficult to undue the progress Thank God
 
Big placebo on this one, but hey if NoFap suddenly makes you feel more confident and in turn create attraction, although it's all in the mind, if it works it works. As a decent looking guy who got glances and smiles from girls while on PMO, that did not change on NoFap. Nothing crazy will suddenly happen to you.

Although fitness gains and strength are definitely huge benefits.
 
[QUOTE = "Aléxandros, post: 3032010, member: 395374"] ¿Alguien tiene algún evento serio que contarnos?
Como una especie de atracción impredecible y sin explicaciones a menos que sea con NoFap.

Solo por diversión [/ QUOTE]

Hello, first I don't speak English but I use a translator to read all your testimonials and also to write comments in English.

Well, I'll tell you a quick one, I did nofap for about 2 or 3 months and the girls I had known for years who had never paid attention to me began to talk to me and stay with me longer, surely it is because of the nofap, I even became boyfriend of several of those girls until he returned to this vice and it has not been easy to get out of here :(
 
It's totally placebo now I'm on 7 months of nofap and nothing changed regarding women I suffer from a terrible failure in social networking sites but I gained the energy and the focus.
When I read first time about nofap I was very happy and excited and thought it was the magic solution to my current problem with women, but unfortunately it didn't work. I think that the people who gained the attention and attraction they are really attractive and nofap Help this attraction appear ,Women are a very difficult and complex being They are the hardest and most important goal in life, but unfortunately I fail and fail
 
Khelloo said:
It's totally placebo now I'm on 7 months of nofap and nothing changed regarding women I suffer from a terrible failure in social networking sites but I gained the energy and the focus.
When I read first time about nofap I was very happy and excited and thought it was the magic solution to my current problem with women, but unfortunately it didn't work. I think that the people who gained the attention and attraction they are really attractive and nofap Help this attraction appear ,Women are a very difficult and complex being They are the hardest and most important goal in life, but unfortunately I fail and fail
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Facts bro, this is not a magic potion to make one suddenly attractive. Otherwise all NoFappers would have been God level Casanova's lol. But no worries, doing NoFap and just bettering yourself is great, it is worth it to become the best version of yourself.
 
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