We live in a world ( the West anyway) that promotes youth and certain lifestyles, fashions, and trends that.pander to our arrogance and make us believe we'll be young forever. We make choices thinking we'll always have tomorrow. We perhaps have ruined previous relationships because we always think that a better one is around the corner. Porn medicates us. The online world is another panacea where we can rush to for a bit of emotional comfort.I Our needs are not met by any of this. Porn, social media and all the other nonsense simply prolong our immaturity, as we fail to take responsibility. We often have little control over the forces that may assail us. But we can fight back and prevail, even in small ways. And nofap is just the start of "growing up", and becoming men.