How pornography transforms/escalates you to a voyeur/cuck. And how to get rid of these.

In this thread i am simply gonna tell you how porn transforms you to a voyeur or a cuck.

Porn, this word is
a beautiful and enjoyable word for some.
And for some, it is ugly and full of hates.
And for some it is beautiful, ugly, enjoyable and dislikable At the same time.
It means there are three kinds of people,
1. one who loves and watches porn.
2. one who dont love and dont watch porn.
3. One who loves and hates porn at the same time, Dislikes and enjoy it at the same time.

Pick the number which suits you.
Picked ?
Now,
If you fall in category 1, prepare for regrets.
If you fall in category 2, you are going well. Keep this mentality. Dont change it.
If you fall in category 3, congratulations ! You are regretting. Isnt it ?

Most voyeurs and cucks fall in this category 3. You may ask me how ?
Lets talk about this.
What are voyeurs ? - the practice of gaining sexual pleasure from watching others when they are naked or engaged in sexual activity.
OR,
enjoyment from seeing sexual activity of others.

What are cucks or cuckolds ? - a man who loves seeing his wife having sex with another man.

Do you find any similarities between Voyeur and Cuckold ?
I guess you have.
Heres what similarities i have found :-
1. Both involves the man not to take part and just watch the scene.
2. Both involves arousal for the man on watching people engaging in sexual activity.
3. Both involves the man masturbating and achieving orgasm by watching people having sex or engaged in sexual activities.
4. Both involves huge amount of dopamine rush in thw wrong way.
5. Porn is the ultimate source for both of these. ( i have explained it below.)
6. Both are fetishes.
7. Both can be formed.
8. Both can be eliminated.

Now the dissimilarities :-
1. Voyeur is not humiliation but for a cuckold, it is.
2. Cuckolding involves the man's wife as the female performer but for voyeurism, any girl would take part.
3. In voyeurism, there is no requirement for the third person but in cuckolding, there is, the bull.
4. Theres no specific requirement in voyeurism, but in cuckolding, there may be. Like body structure, body colour, dick size etc.


You notice that there are more similarities than dissimilarites. How ?
Here, i want you to pay attention SPECIALLY.
**I WANT YOU TO CONTROL YOURSELF HERE.**


I want you to imagine.
Just imagine. No need to put yourself in a pressure. Just think.

Youre a non addicted guy. You havent watched porn in your entire life. You only masturbate to watching those models in short dresses which are on magazine, articles etc.
suddenly someone gave you an access to watch solo porn. You have watched solo porn and achieved a mind blowing orgasm for the first time ever. Would you be interested on going back to those magazine's models again ?

My predictable answer is "NO".
Why would you go back to those magazines again if you have hot solo porns.
Now, Youre masturbating and getting your mind blowing orgasms everyday by watching those solo porns.

Now, concentrate.
After 1 or 2 months. You are having fun with your solo porn. You have become addicted to solo porns.
You have an urge in your body.
You have been given two screens to masturbate. The left one is playing a solo porn of a hot pornstar. And the right one is playing a porn in which that hot female pornstar is getting fucked by a guy.
Youre an addicted porn guy, which one you would have picked to get yourself to an orgasm.

If you have picked the left one that is the solo porn. then youre an alien. Stop reading this and get out of here.

If you have picked the right one that is the fucking porn one. Then congratulations, you are a human.
You have achieved another mind blowing orgasm (probably twice mind blowing) by watch that porn in which two people are fucking.
Question - would you be interested in going back to those solo porn again ?

My predictable answer is again "NO".

Youre probably getting to know how porn escalates.

Im giving you an another example.
**this one might be a trigger but hold on yourself, if you wanna get out of this**
Imagine.
You have watched tones of porn which involves two people fucking. You have daily masturbated on them.
Again, you have been given two screens. 1. Is playing the regular type of porn which you watch daily and the other one 2. Is playing gangbang porn.
Which one would you pick ?

The second one is my predictable answer.

You have watched enough regular porn. Suddenly you saw GB porn. Dont you feel aroused ?
You got yourself another mind blowing orgasm by masturbating to a GB porn.
Question - would you be interested in going to back to those porn that you used to watch daily ?

No.

Now i think you have got an idea on how porn escalates.


《When you first saw solo porn, you left magazines.
When you first saw two people having sex porn, you left solo porns.
When you saw GB, you left two people having sex porn.
So why this escalation ?
Our brain gets bored if you eat same food daily. Its happening with porn also. Replace food with porn.
Your brain releases a chemical called dopamine.
read about dopamine in google. I am not going in details. Otherwise this thread would be too long.
It is a rewarding hormone when you watch something arousing.
The porn industry has alot of extreme stuffs which we find really arousing Suppose bondage, threesomes, gangbang, submittion, humiliation, femdom, cuckold, foreplay, latex etc. Its the coolidge effect which escates you. Read on google about it.



Now one more and the last example relating to these topics which i have mentioned in the heading.

**i really really want you to hold yourself on because this example is related to the above topic and people might get triggerred reading this. But do me a favour, control yourself, dont masturbate. Dont fantasize. If you have made this far then i guess you can go farther than this too.if you want to get rid of this fetish then you have to understand its origin.**



You are watching a porn which involves people having sex. Suppose the title of that porn is "nnn is having sex with jjj". And suddenly you saw another tittle below it named " wife cheats her husband and having sex with her lover".

This types of title and porn creates an insecuirity and fear inside you. You think that maybe your loved ones should also leave you. It produces a fear. It forms a pain inside you that what if your loved ones do this with you. You become uncomfortable. And eventually you develop a cuckold Fetish. Fetish turn pain into pleasure.

Since you have masturbated to porn, watching people having sex all these years, you are comfortable with it. But the moment you watch a cuckold porn, or think about youre being cucked, you feel insecure, you think youre not man enough. You have a pain inside you. A fear inside. At the same time, youre getting pleasure watching your loved one getting physical with another man.

Porn is nothing but just acting. They are actors. They are getting paid for what they do. There are penile surgeries, breast surgeries, butt surgeries these days. Plus they fake orgasm. It is a billionaire company, it can go to any extent to make the scene looks very arousing. It will make the best use of artificial things to make it make arousing every single time to get more views and to make more money. Men feel insecure on watching those 9inch 10inch dicks. But they are not real. There are surgeries and procedures done to make it look bigger.


Now, how to get rid of these fetishes :-
Just quit porn and masturbation.
Remember i told you to imagine to be a guy who hasnt even watched porn ? Did he have a problem with all of these cuck and voyeur things? No.

Just simply stop watching porn, stop masturbation and orgasm. Everything will turn back to normal. Go for 150 days nofap challenge. Work on yourself.

I myself have tried these. I used to get really turned on by cheating girls And watching people having sex. I was really uncomfortable. I did 80 days of nofap. I worked on myself, i lost weight, got a haircut. Built a good body. And also i have a big dick so it boosted my confidence. And it worked. I lost that fetish. Things changed. Girls were being dragged towards me. They started to notice me. I became confident and dominant. I even wanted to fuck the wives infront of their husbands. But that is wrong.
Howver, aftwr 80 days of doing nofap something emotional happened with me and i relapsed. I started watching porn again. I became addicted to it. Its been 3 months i have been watching and was really uncomfortable.
I am on my 11 th day of nofap.
The thing is that you have to give up porn permanently. You have to stick to nofap before killing this fetish and after.
If you have lost this fetish and you start watching porn again, then you will get this fetish back. Porn is not the thing for you. Nofap is the way to kill all of these fetish.
You have to stick with nofap throughout your life if you wanna live like a man.
Build up confidence, be a man who is being desired by women.
If i can do it then youll also can.
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/root-cause-to-get-rid-of-porn-addiction.295369/
This is a thread i have created. Its the root cause on how to get rid of porn. Check it out.
"Every problem has a sollution".
Peace.

 

I love the thread. Each and everything explained in details.
There is a solution for every problem.
People should not turn back and should continue on the good path. I love the way how you explained. Putting some spoilers would have helped. Haha. Good job man.

 

Thank you everyone.

 

I really appreciate your efforts. Thanks for this thread.

 

Was your first fetish there with you before you have watched porn for the first time ?

 

Thank you pal.

Very unfortunate that you developed this fetish based on your life experience.

Haha! XD