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How the fuck are you suppose to do this

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Upwards2020, Mar 25, 2021.

  1. icy_tundra_21

    icy_tundra_21 Fapstronaut

    it's simple but my god it is not easy. i try not to overthink it - everytime i overthink i convince myself i have the power, try to take control back, and end up relapsing. my sponsor constantly talks to me about focusing on connecting/healthy/fun things to do. hang in there
     
  2. jrm61

    jrm61 Fapstronaut

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    I've just downloaded Cold Turkey Blocker, and it's the only thing that has gotten me off of porn so far. The last five days have been the easiest five days away from porn in my life because I've had zero ability to browse or even be tempted to browse porn. It's an amazing application and if you want to talk more about it DM me!
     
  3. TobyCelibate

    TobyCelibate Fapstronaut

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    To keep it short and simple, is to find yourself a Significant Other. I met my S/O while on day 6 of NoFap. (4 months in)

    I was at the Spa, and saw a beautiful woman there, I hesitated at first, but decided to ask for her number. So now I have a girlfriend and a potential side piece.

    And my motivation for NoFap is in building Relationships with females.

    try this. Next time you see an attractive female, instead of hiding your face; and feeling shame about your attraction for her, Just be honest with her. Introduce yourself, cut it short.

    “What’s up?”
    “Nothing much, just chilling”
    “Are you seeing anybody at the moment?”
    If Yes, Cool. Ask another. Hell- right in-front of her even. AND IF NOT.
    “Not at the moment, why?”

    “would you like to talk a little more?”
    “Hmm, sure why not”

    BOOM. Than just be chill, and set up a date dude.

    woman love a man who engages and goes after what he wants. Not a man who lives in fear, and stares at her for 20 minutes straight.

    hope this helps.
     
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