Hi guys, I'm 36 y/o who's had a long history with P... started when i was like 15 or so all the way to this year. I first had sex when i was 21 or so and i didn't feel anything. Back then i didn't associate it with PM and kept on PMOing at home everyday. When i was married i had a hard time keeping my erection, but i blamed it on the bad relationship and how it made me lose all attraction to her (she was abusive). 2020 i got divorced and it was just a massive shitstorm in my life... 2021 finally hooked up with a girl and when we were having sex for the first time, i can barely keep it up for 3 minutes. And this went on few times... at that time, i blamed it on my depression. Then i tried to take the blue pill and i managed to get it up for approximately 5 hours, i can't even O normally at that moment, had to finish it with my hand. So i googled and came across an article in reddit about death grip and further research led me to this forum and taught me about PIED... I'm currently 30+ days without PMO. I'm just wondering if there's a method to check whether i'm cured from the death grip and PIED? i mean, should i just hire a prostitute to just check? I'm currently in a relationship and i don't really want my gf to know that i have both death grip and PIED so i don't want to do anything with her until i'm cured... but hiring a prostitute when i'm in a relationship feels so wrong... hope there's a method? Thanks peeps!