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How to delete social media (Instagram)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Robiwan, Jul 24, 2022.

  1. Robiwan

    Robiwan Fapstronaut

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    Hi Everyone,

    I'm writing today because I woke up this night and I couldn't control myself. From 2 am to 6 am I edged 4 hours on Instagram and PMO twice. My main trigger on Instagram is to watch hot young girls and text them. I have a good profile with 20.000 followers so girls OFTEN reply me and I start sexualizing the conversation. Those discussions are always meaningless, superficial, centered on the girl, but so ADDICTIVE and exciting. When they don't reply, I usually offer some fast money transfer (small amounts) and that triggers their attention which creates an endless dopamine flow.

    In this context, I successfully deleted my fake accounts on Facebook, Twitter, Snap, etc. When I stopped approaching random girls on those platforms, I felt better. However, the main platform is Instagram and I don't have the courage to delete my 20k account. If I delete it, I'm afraid to feel lonely, to lose social advantages with girls (that helps!), to lose social value, to be rejected for not having social media, to have wasted so much time and effort to build up this profile, and so on.

    What tips can I use to delete my account forever and not experience all those negative consequences?

    Thank you,

    Robin
     
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  2. It can be difficult giving up something that you consider to be a project that took a lot of work. It's always going to come back to you as a reason not to let it go. The reality, though, is that Instagram is absolute garbage and you don't need it for anything, especially if having it puts you in a position to jerk off and then ejaculate twice in 4 hours. At some point, you don't own the things you have... they own you.
     
  3. Robiwan

    Robiwan Fapstronaut

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    Thank you very much for your reply, Kopykat. I fully agree with what you said. Could you suggest me a few concrete tips to "make it" and delete it? I believe I should go cold turkey but it might be good to have a safety net as I'll remove a strong habit by deleting Instagram.
     
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  4. You can't let your emotions rule you. Part of the reason you want to hang on to Instagram is because of how much work you feel like you've put into it. That's understandable. But unless you use Instagram for business and it makes you money (real money), you have ZERO reason to keep it.

    Once upon a time, I was on Instagram. I no longer am. Tons of guys here could say the same.

    If you're edging for hours at a time and having multiple ejaculations in a day, even if that's not the norm for you, you have a problem. Trying to go cold turkey might be the way forward. If not, remove triggers at the very least. That includes Instagram. That's the only way you'll give yourself a real and honest chance to succeed.
     
  5. koolpal

    koolpal Fapstronaut

    I accidentally deleted the Instagram app off my phone. But left it like that for a month. Which became a year.

    Eventually found other things to do in my life. Like going out into the world, spent money on dance lessons, learning to socialize & dance with random women. (Totally blew my mind in terms of sensory overload.) :emoji_man_dancing::emoji_dancer:

    Checked Instragram a year later only to see the same kind of posts from the last year! No one really changed!

    Still have my account. I just don’t check it anymore. (Maybe that would work for you.) It’s been 5+ years now.

    As for Facebook, I totally deleted that. Been 10+ years now. I don’t miss it either.

    Hope that helps.
     
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  6. bertieboy

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    Hi it is good you recognise you have a problem and have joined NoFap. I only joined last week and am on day 9 of a 90 day reboot. It is absolutely essential you delete instagram and everything that goes with it, close the account, delete the app from your phone and I will tell you why by telling you my story. I am seriously addicted to live sex webcams. I had an account with a webcam site, and was spending money on them. I had built up a considerable list of contacts and private sex shows. At first it wasn't a large amount of money I was spending but as time went on they upped my spending limit to unlimited, so long as I was spending money there was no end to it. I am now completely addicted to webcam sex and my bank account is empty. I have spent a considerable inheritence on this and I mean thousands. What really concerns me is that you mentioned that you send some of these girls small amounts of money but if you don't take action now there will come a day when you will end up spending a full months salary in a single night. This has happened to me a few times and I have ended up with no money for food and have had to sell things to get food or take loans from loan companies at high interest because I needed the money immediately and sometimes I have even spent the loans on webcams. This addiction is awful and life destroying and I would hate to see anyone in the same situation as me. I know this all sounds very dramatic and I might be an extreme case and perhaps you are nowhere near this stage but it will progress if you don't take action now. Please please take a deep breath and delete the app and other social media. I know it seems like a big step and you might feel like you are socially isolating yourself but you aren't really. All these social media sites are just rubbish, if you step back and think about what you are looking at are any of them really important to your existence. Probably not. Mostly they consist of stupid pictures stupid little vids and stupid comments nothing that is going to have an adverse effect on your life. You can always come on NoFap and build up a base of contacts here, ok they might not be girls but do you really want to be in contact with girls who are taking money for a flash of tit or whatever? I suggest you read up on porn addiction, how it affects the brain and mind, put a plan in place to quit but most of all delete the app. Good luck on your journey and maybe our paths will cross again on here
     
  7. Ianlld

    Ianlld New Fapstronaut

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    I am in my second week with no relapses. My wife moved out after discovering my addiction 2 weeks ago as well. We are in therapy as a couple and individually. The FIRST thing I did was delete FB, IG, SC, OF & TT. I also put a blocker on my phone. Following that I ordered a flip phone with no camera. In exchange for my iPhone. I still carry an iPhone for work but will
    Not use it for anything other than work related issues. I can tell you the last 15 days with out those triggers has been amazing. There’s a long road ahead but I’ve never been so clear headed.
     
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  8. bertieboy

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    This is really really good to hear and very encouraging. We seem to almost on the same part of the journey. I am on day 19 of a 90 reboot and haven't lapsed once either. I think the start of our recovery is when we fully realise how much we have already lost and how much more we will lose, not can loose or could loose, but definitely WILL loose if we don't put the brakes on and stop. I lost almost everything and dramatic as it might sound I could have actually ended up homeless through this addiction because of the amount of money I was spending on it. I spent a fortune on live webcam sex, pathetic I know but true. I was right at rock bottom when I joined NoFap nearly 3 weeks ago. Empty bank account and no money for food. I do feel stronger now and am determined to beat this addiction to a pulp. Like you I am much more clear headed now the fuzziness has gone and I am seeing more clearly. Very well done you deserve a bit pat on the back for coming this far.
     
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