How to fully stop from PMO

Is it me or is everybody's way of abstaining from PMO seems to be in the wrong direction. I know there was a thread like this a couple of weeks ago but I'm tired of reading countless of people's comments suggesting that they've relapsed and they don't know what to do. I've seen posts stating that they have found distractions that helped them quell the urges but these techniques won't help you in the long run because there is another version of you that is convinced that PMO is enjoyable and not harmful. The right mindset would be to convince yourself including the addict part of your brain that PMO is a bad influence in your life. Once you've done that, you won't relapse. It would seem like the option doesnt even exist. Healing comes from the mind first, without the mindset, people would be doomed to repeat their failures. If you see this addiction as a war to be fought then you don't have the right mindset.

I think this technique should be spread out to every fapstronauts out there as this is the only way to fully stop from PMOing. What do you guys think?