How to kill my sex drive

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by office, Jul 12, 2023.

  1. ryan9---0

    ryan9---0 Fapstronaut

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    feel like shit man bcs i fapped twice
     
  2. Joshua09

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    Now I think you shouldn't let that guilt, reengage again in that filthy activity.
    The positive result far outweigh the immediate pleasure it might give. I have been wholly another person after I have started looking in this issue and restrain these activities.
    We are here for each other, for the fight of our life.
     
  3. ryan9---0

    ryan9---0 Fapstronaut

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    hey man can i dm you
    i am just so much flat on mind
     
  4. ryan9---0

    ryan9---0 Fapstronaut

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    i am so cooked man cant study cant do work
     
  5. Joshua09

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    It's just the brain mechanism to let you be in homeostasis level, it will go on soon brother, just focusing on one day at a time.
    Sure bro feel free to dm
     
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  6. ryan9---0

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    thanks man i appreciate it
    many people in reddit pretend to be helping and showing me nude stuff and shit there is a video that is on my mind
    only that corn video thats why it came to this point
    other things dont attract me at all
     
  7. Joshua09

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    The goal is to consciously abstain from that sort of stuffs until those materials don't have affect to us. Looking at porn and not lusting is superpower. But I think for that we have to struggle for a bit.
     
  8. ryan9---0

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    yeah man there is a specific video i am still attracted to no nothing weird shit just normal video that i want to remove from me and my life or it would ruin me
     
  9. Joshua09

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    And I think you know the work you have to do. Let's go to longer streak together brother.
     
  10. ryan9---0

    ryan9---0 Fapstronaut

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    i am with you bro i slipped out man bcs i was weak when i thought i conquered it
    thats the reason i failed
     
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  11. LifeSaviour

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    Some people recommend cold showers, but I don't like it because it decreases the muscle gains.

    I think the best thing you can do is don't be bored. Do something productive to distract yourself, like exercises, reading a book, outdoor acitivities, etc.

    Also, our libido is something biological and I don't believe is a good idea to surpress it. You want to PMO because your brain associated porn as real sex, which isn't true sex and it's harmful. When you drop porn for good, you don't even have many urges to MO anymore.

    EDIT: You will not want to be 0 libido when you meet a beautiful girl. That's why I abandoned the idea of ''kill sex drive''. I used sexual energy to improve other areas of my life, and that's what NoFap is about: sexual transmutation.
     
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  12. ryan9---0

    ryan9---0 Fapstronaut

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    thanks dude it reduced i am not thinking about it
    i think nofap as an extension of my life