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How to manage feeling "healed" or close to it without flatline coming back

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, May 7, 2023.

  1. It’s come to my realisation that the problem I’ve had is that I’ve pushed myself too far when I’m healed or very close to being healed. This is a pattern that’s repeated itself for years.

    • I last time I had sex was just over a month ago and was feeling good enough to have sex but 3 times in one night pushed me into a flatline that I’m yet to receive from. I pushed myself too far as I liked the girl a lot and she wanted to go again. The flatline followed immediately after the 3rd time. And I’ve been it since. I’ve had 2 days where I felt ok but then right back to the flatline. (The sex was ok, not great but a massive improvement. Big time PE on 2 out of the 3 attempts. Attempt 2 was very good.)
    • The time I healed before that, 2 very short PMO relapses sent me back to the flatline. It always seems to take me around 3/4 months to feel healed or very close to it. I can get away with a few MOs (1 every few weeks) but no PMOS as that’s the fastback back to the flatline.
    • The time before that, I felt very close to being healed but had an incredible wet dream that gave me the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had. It was like I was 18 again! Orgasm sensation has been awfully low for many many years for me. After that wet dream, I had a dull, constant headache at the front of my brain for 3/4 weeks! I went to the doctors and told them this embarrassing story as it freaked me out and pain pills didn't stop it.
    So now, I'm feeling close to being recovered again as I'm seeing many improvements in my life, sexual problems aside, and I've been in the flatline for weeks so I just be getting close to feeling sexual again.

    What I want to know is what do people do when they feel healed? Do you just have sex once every few days, once a week? It’s so heartbreaking going from feeling great STRAIGHT back to the flatline. I don't want to mess this up. I want to date date date when I feel well enough to because I'm tired of wasting my time on the sidelines.

    This has been going on for years for me and I’m sick of it. How do you ensure you don’t fry your receptors when you’re very closer to being healed?
     
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