How to masturbate healthily!!

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Infinite spirit, May 6, 2019.

  1. Infinite spirit

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    Not a clickbait. Masturbation is not the best activitey to spend your time and energy. But let's face it..almost every male on the planet masturbates. We've come to realize that it has the potential to destroy our lives if we overdo it. If you are going to masturbate..there is a less damaging ways to do it.
    1- once a week. Between each masturbation session (ejaculation) ..make sure there is a gap of time at least 7 days. Your testosterone gets to a peak level every seven days you don't ejaculate. If you ejaculate twice a week or more..you will feel drained..tired and lazy for a good couple of days. And I explained in other threads why this is.

    2-don't edge. Just finish it. Edging is the worst thing you can do. It fucks with your fluids in the reproductive system and urinary system. You are Basically fucking with your pelvic muscle..making it weaker. You are opening it (come on baby we're gonna cum now....oh no just kidding). Now your pelvic muscle will open by itself..randomly..causing frequent urination. You will go to the toilet all the fucking time. Also ..edging causes hard friction on the penis..makes your Michael sore ..desensitized . Edging can cause prostate proplem if done for so long. This is only the physical harms ..not to mention how it affects your brain ..elevating dopamine levels for so long. Makes you numb to the constant touch of your hand..yes..ED. don't edge..just bust that nut and move on.
    3- be gentle. Your dick is not made out of metal..it can't take any level of pressure and friction for any amount of time.stop "beating your meat". Don't use a tight grip. Don't do it super fast. Use a lube to reduce the friction .And after you finish..flush it with cool water on the penis.
    4-don't watch porn. No need to explain the obvious.

    And finally.. it's better to not masturbate at all..You are basically fucking yourself for no reason. You don't need it.. you don't want it. You are just addicted to it and doing it out of habit.
     
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  2. TrueSaiyan

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    Well said. I've read online that masturbating is just like "self rape" feeding on yourself because you are addicted to your own pleasure (Insert vegeta voice). All because you want to do it. To be honest I've been trying to on the healthier side, but its just a trigger and not worth it at all. I can't explain how many times I've done it before bed and I would be feel lazy at work the next night because of it. I feel this current streak is going to be a good one.

    Good luck Infinite Spirit!
     
  3. ultrafabber

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    No such thing as "healthy masturbation". It's just an excuse for users to keep getting their fix.
     
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  4. Infinite spirit

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    You are trying to make troubles for no reason. My message was so clear.. Don't masturbate. If you will..follow these rules to make it less damaging.
     
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  5. ultrafabber

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    I agree with you that there are less damaging and more damaging ways to masturbate, but at the end of the day they're all unhealthy and the title of your topic implies there is a way to masturbate healthily.

    You also implied that "almost every male on planet masturbates", which is false and only makes masturbation look normal, even if it's not.
     
  6. Infinite spirit

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    It's true. At least once in lifetime. I can't imagine a guy who never touched himself.
    Yes ..and this is precisely my message if you get it!!!
     
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  7. ultrafabber

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    There are probably men that haven't. The point is that while yes, many guys probably masturbated at least once in their life, saying "almost every male on planet masturbates" implies it's a habit for most men... not a one-time thing. This is why i'm saying that the implication of that statement is not good.
     
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  8. Infinite spirit

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    I don't see any wrong in my statement. We live in the 21st century with this hyper-sexual society. I'm more than sure that every teen and young man masturbates. At least for explorations.
     
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  9. There're probably numerous people who have never masturbated in their life. This statement is illogical. It's hard to prove it (are there some studies?), but don't be naive in believing that it's impossible. Even common sense says otherwise.
     
  10. ultrafabber

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    That's what i'm saying... that there is a very big difference by masturbating a couple of times in your adolescence for exploration and masturbating regularly into adulthood. By saying "all/most men masturbate" you are implying they all do it as a habit.

    For example all people shat themselves... it's just that they did it in the first and second year of their life. That's why it's improper to say "all people shit themselves"

    I do agree that we live in a hyper-sexual society (western society) and people masturbate more than ever at this time. Not that it's healthy or anything.
     
  11. Infinite spirit

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    Disable people maybe. For religions reasons and society's pressures..maybe. but I bet you.. every normal guy must have masturbated at least once in lifetime. No doubt about it.
     
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  12. Infinite spirit

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    I don't want to get lost in this single statement as if it really a big deal and ignore the other important points that I make. You are free to Believe what you want..for me..im sure almost every guy played with his Michael..even jesus did. Good luck!
     
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  13. Habbapop

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    This is like telling an drug addict. Don't use drugs but if you want to, do it like this ! It doesn't work that way. Addicts are addicts for a reason.
     
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  14. Angus McGyver

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    When I finally stopped masturbating last year, my life took off in a (positive) direction I could never have imagined beforehand.
    During that first few months of the reboot, almost every single issue/problem I had accumulated for the past 14-15 years started to fade away, one after the other and I started to enjoy life again (even the small things) for the first time since childhood. Still, when I tell this for many guys who slap the salami regularly they think all the claimed benefits of semen-retention and abstinence from PMO are nothing but bogus and fiction.
    The same people also claim it's impossible to abstain for even a few days which is a clear sign they are nothing but slaves to their urges and impulses. Since they have no clue about what life on the other side of the PMO-wall might bring (they only know what they already have and think that's the best life could possibly be) they never even make a serious attempt at stopping their PMO-habit.
     
  15. IGY

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    That's an insulting thing to say about Jesus to Christians that believe he was the Son of God. He was pure not a wanker! :mad:
     
  16. Mickey Donnell

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    What the hell is a "Michael"? That's the first time I've heard 'Richard" called that. Lol
     
  17. InnerFaith

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    wow!, here comes infinite spirit from the olympian mountains, to teach the common people what is the right way to mastubate! :emoji_scream:
    where have you been all my life ?
     
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  18. I'll agree that nearly everyone has, at some point, masturbated in their life. I'm also going to argue that masturbation in and of itself isn't inherently a bad thing per se. The problem comes when porn becomes a part of it, and then masturbation becomes connected to porn.

    At that point, then masturbation becomes an issue. The reason for this is that now you've formed a connection between porn and masturbation itself, and one that doesn't really go away. Unfortunately, an addict is an addict. There's no going back to the way it was before porn, and for that reason it's better just to keep porn and masturbation out of your life.
     
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  19. yup. This thread is BS
     
  20. lofi

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    I agree with Bryan Myers and I have to disagree with habbapop. The porn is the problem, the masturbation in itself isn't a problem.
    It's a problem for me. When I masturbate I don't have pleasure until cumming. I force, contract penis and ass to get it hard, that's the problem.
    However I happened to bust a nut and felt like a lion before, meanwhile and after doing it. Feeling pleasure from the start to finish. That's how sex and masturbation should be in my opinion.
    Maybe I will realise that even masturbation is a problem just because I'm at the beginning of my journey. We'll see..
     
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