I need some advice from guys who have tried having sexual interactions during a reboot, or girls who dated a guy or had a longterm relationship with one while he was in a reboot. Hello all. I'm going on a date (kind of, more just a hangout while eating dinner) in a few days. I'm guessing this girl likes me a lot because she asked me to hang out, and when I said I was busy at the time she wanted to go out, she was persistent in finding a new time. I don't wanna jump the gun or assume too much, but I'm not sure what to do if she wants to get physical after the date (or after another date if this one goes well). I'm on Day 10, and I think I'm starting to feel the flatline (not nearly as many erections as a couple weeks ago, lazy, tired, anxious), but I'd feel that it would be pretty shitty to like deny her from anything. I'm thinking I have 4 options 1. Tell her I can't have any type of sexual contact, even with her, since I'm in my reboot. I don't like this option a lot because I feel like she just won't want to date a guy who won't touch her/she may feel I'm not attracted to her or don't wanna go on more dates. 2. Tell her we can do anything as long as it doesn't involve my dick. I like this option better, but still not too much, because I want to please her and make her feel good, but I feel like the urges/blue balls from being with her without release will be really painful and not great. However, I'm not sure if I'll be able to get an erection at all since I'm likely in my flatline, but I'm fairly confident I could (I get 5/10 erections typically and I'm feeling kinda horny). 3. Tell her what my deal is with DE and try to have sex. This is my second favorite option. The last time I tried to have sex I could get hard, although only like 8/10, and I could not finish, but that was about 6 months ago, and I feel like I have cut down on my PMO since then. I have not yet isolated if my symptoms are from PIED, DE, or Death Grip, but I'm pretty sure it's Death Grip, and since I've been PMOing pretty lightly in the last month and a half , if my problem was Death Grip, it should be significantly healed by now. If it works and I finish then hooray, but if it doesn't it'll be extremely embarrassing for her and me, so this is why it's not my top option. 4. If she wants to have sex, ask for a blowjob/handjob. I like this option best because It's easy for me to reciprocate She be able to stimulate me a lot more and under more control than regular sex I can direct? (don't know if that's the right word) her to what feels good because of obvious reasons I'll tell her before about my DE, so if it doesn't work, I'll know that my problem is really bad and I need to go Hard Mode, and she would probably be less embarrassed about me not finishing if we had sex. If it does work, we can try and have sex next time, and if sex that time doesn't work, she can acclimate me with oral a few times and then go into sex. If anyone has been dating during a reboot lmk what you think is best. P isn't ruining my life and I just want to be able to perform with a girl in bed, so being able to finish with a girl is my main priority (I'm jus not concerned about social anxiety, talking to girls, wasting time with P/M, being responsible, I just want a relationship). I just want to fast-track being with a girl. If I heal slower but can be with a girl then idc. Ik this post is long but thanks for reading.