Hello! My soon to be ex husband and I still live in the same house. He is about to file for divorce. Because we have an infant daughter, I try my very best to be cordial and kind, even. However he is constantly defensive when I ask about ANYTHING. I know my “snooping” has put him on the edge so now he thinks all my questions point to mistrust or suspicion about an affair (Im convinces he has an affair but he vehemently denies it) He is downright MEAN and cant even accord the kindness any human is entitled to, much more the mother of HIS child and at some point, his wife (technicall ans legallly still his wife) What is the best way to respond to him? Why is he doing this? Why cany he even be kind to me?? We are going towards the Divorce anyway which HE wants and he cant even be kind and respectful? He claims hes being “nice” but I’m only looking for something else he cannot give ut he cant even look at me.