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How to stop flirting with women??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Sep 6, 2019.

  1. Sep 6, 2019 #1
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    I DO HAVE A GF

    Everywhere I go. I never cold-approach women, but if they’re one of my coworkers and they say something to me I get tempted to strong flirt with them (not that I would ever cheat) but it’s one of those ‘grass is greener’ scenarios. My girlfriend is an honest 8 on the 1-10 scale and it’s often hard to reject a 9/9.5 that tries to flirt. I also have a nice car and love the validation I get from women (kinda like—I have all this nice stuff, what’s the point if I don’t show it off?) y’know I know this is wrong and I do love my GF, but is anyone in a similar situation right now? What do?
     
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  2. Sep 6, 2019 #2
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    Flirting math, your 8 + a 9 can equal 0 for you.
    You love your gf, this take her 8 well past 10 and higher than the 9 can reach.
     
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  3. Sep 6, 2019 #3
    Ogikubo

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    You should talk to your girlfriend about what she thinks about guys flirting with her. What does she consider flirting? A woman's perspective on this will tell you more than what a bunch of guys think, IMHO.
     
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  4. Sep 6, 2019 #4
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    I know, I feel like such a jackass. Now this coworker milf has been talking to me FML. Like she told me she's gonna wear a skimpy outfit at work tomorrow and it's like wtf dude..lol now I can't stop fantasizing. I understand I'm thinking with my junk and not my head..I won't cheat but it's SOOOO enticing..help
     
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  5. Sep 6, 2019 #5
    Ogikubo

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    I suspect she knows exactly what she is doing. However, I also suspect she may also be sitting at home now and feeling a bit regretful about such talk. Keep it professional at work.
    When we give up PMO, we also make some other realizations about our behavior. It forces us to be more mature. I can't walk past certain women at work without fantasizing, but I'll be damned if they ever suspected I felt that way.
    Don't feel like a jackass. You've got this. Confidence is king.
     
    Ogikubo, Sep 6, 2019
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  6. Sep 6, 2019 #6
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    Also be aware that many women flirt for validation, and have no real interest in you. Trust me, I've been down this road a few times.
     
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